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DIYP #36 Making a Little Girl’s Canopy & Chandelier

My 9 year old daughter wanted to make a few changes to her room. She’s in between the character bedding stage and the free-spirit teenager bedroom style.
In other words, I can still have my way with her room.
After looking through a couple of magazines (and having a mild heartache at bedding and room decor prices), we agreed she just needed a few big girl touches.
So, I thought a canopy over her bed would be fun.  I bought a long white tab top curtain. (I got mine at Ikea, but they are available just about everywhere). 
I bought different colors of wide ric rac that matched her quilt from a fabric store.
I spaced the ric rac strips out on the curtain. I heated up my glue gun and she helped secure each piece:

I bought two cheap curtain rods and attached the hardware to her ceiling. I threaded the tab top ends thru one rod and hung the other end of the curtain by draping it over the other rod:
I’m really pleased with how it turned out! It gives her bed a canopy-feel and cost approximately $25. 
My daughter saw some cute girly chandeliers in a Pottery Barn magazine that were the price of a minivan, so we made our own.
I bought a cheap beaded candle holder.  It caught my eye because it was a hanging candle holder.

I found some crystal hanging things (I think they were ornaments) to hang on the bottom of the candle holder.

I glued a strand of fake pearls on the bottom to hang it:

Turned out pretty cute:

I think our homemade ‘chandelier’ is pretty cute, especially since it cost less than $10!
{Please note that my DIYP posts will move to Fridays (instead of Saturdays) starting next week}
Kristen
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I Will Not Leave You

“Son, I’m going to grab a quick bath, okay?”
“Uh, huh,” he mumbled from the middle of my bed, surrounded by big pillows and covered in thick blankets.
He was taking a sick day from school and the rest of the family was in the school drop-off line.
I decided to grab the few minutes of quiet because I knew they would be fleeting.
I shut the door with my son on the other side, ran a hot bath and slipped into the tub.
The warm water eased my hurried mind.
In the quiet, I closed my eyes. A few minutes passed….
And that’s when I heard an urgent guttural cry, a scream for help.
I jumped from the water, grabbed my towel and threw open the door. I found my feverish son standing in the middle of my room, shaking and crying in fear.
“What?? What happened? Are you okay?” I glanced around the room with a pounding heart.
Through sobs and snotty tears, “I couldn’t find you. I couldn’t find you, I couldn’t find you,” he repeated over and over.
“Son, I was in the bath! Why did you think I left?” I said with a trembling voice.
“I don’t know. I just forgot. Sometimes, I’m afraid I will be left alone and not have you and Daddy,” he sobbed uncontrollably.
I grabbed him by the arms and glared into his eyes and said with all the love and firmness I possessed, “I will not leave. I WILL NOT leave you. I WILL NOT LEAVE YOU.”
And then I hugged him and we both cried.
Even after I’d comforted him, the words banged around in my heart, I will not leave you.
Settled back in bed, my hubby returned home with our toddler to grab a few items and head to work. I told him what happened.
Understandably, he thought it was ridiculous that my son knew I was taking a bath, only to forget and get hysterical, for no reason. He blamed it on him not feeling well.
I agreed.
But I couldn’t shake those words from my head.
So, I sat down and listened to my heart.
This is what I heard: “I will not leave you, Kristen. I will not leave you. Even though you know I am here, you doubt Me. Some days you feel alone, isolated, afraid. I will not leave you. I WILL NOT leave you. I WILL NOT LEAVE YOU.”
It was as if God grabbed me by the arms, glared into my eyes and said it with all the love and firmness He possessed.
And I believed Him.

*Updated* Would you please pray with me for this family? I met them a few weeks ago, they are staying in Texas to receive medical care for their precious new son. Today, he underwent surgery and this promise is especially needed today. Thank you!
Kristen
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The Random Post

Oh, look there are bullet points!
  •  WFMW Announcement: First of all, thank you for joining in! It should be illegal to have as much fun as I did on Wednesday! I wanted to announce that this Wednesday, March 4th (the first of the month), we will have a themed Works for Me Wednesday: Greatest Tips Edition. Many of you have participated in this carnival for months and even years. I thought it would be fun to share your Greatest Tip (you can republish a tip or share a new one)!  It’s a great resource to have all your best tips in one place, so this is purely selfish.
  • That is all (I learned somewhere that three points are better than two).

Kristen
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Sincerely ‘Fro Me to You: The Next Step

*Update* Congrats to Wilma (#9). Email me your snail mail and I’ll send some cookies your way!
For the past year, I’ve been sharing pictures of my fabulous 80′s ‘fro and the adventures of my over-permed ‘do. 
My perfectly formed helmet of hair has enjoyed the ride.
circa, 1980 ‘fro
And more importantly, your linked-up old pictures and new stories have made it all the more fun!
As many of you know, I’m now hosting Works for Me Wednesday (WFMW) weekly now and I want to devote more of my attention to this new adventure. Plus, I don’t really want to be known as the Carnival Queen.
I’ve decided to pay it forward (just as Shannon did for me). Instead of stopping the weekly ‘fro fun, it will now be hosted every Thursday at The Glamorous Life. Marcy has kindly agreed to take over Sincerely ‘Fro Me to You, starting next week. She’s been a regular participant of this weekly event and she has a personal relationship with Mr. Linky!
I’m sure I will still join in occasionally because some pictures are just worth sharing.
Please join her next Thursday and support this carnival!
And just so none of y’all will be mad at me, I’m bribing you with Girl Scout Cookies! Everyone who links up today will be entered to win 3 boxes of the yummy Cookies!
So, there’s that.
Samoas® or Caramel deLites®



Kristen
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WFMW: The Special Plate

I love celebrations. 

And not just for the cake.

Although…. never mind.

I love nurturing my family. It’s one of the greatest joys I find in being a mother and wife. 

But I don’t leave the celebrating just for birthdays and anniversaries. I pull out the You are Special Today Platefor regular days, days I want to make special. Days that involve awesome test grades, Boy Scout badges or little personal victories like not talking in the school hallway four days in a row. (Not that my kids talk in the halls!)

I inherited my lovely red plate at a Family Reunion from a relative and thought it was a rare family heirloom from Germany. I was surprised to discover you can buy them on Amazon! How sentimental of them!

Toaster waffles and macaroni on a special plate just scream, “I love you. Keep up the good work!”

I love waking up to find my Mother’s Day breakfast on our special plate that normally hangs on the kitchen plate rack. Because, well, even Mommies and Daddies need extra special attention.

These plates make fantastic gifts for yourself or friends, but you don’t even have to buy one! Just take an ordinary plate and decorate it with colorful porcelain markers (bake the plate according to directions to set in the ink permanently).  Or you can assign the honor to a unique plate you already own.

It’s not really about a plate. 

But you know that don’t you?

Making my people feel special works for me!

{Thank you for joining me for my first hosted WFMW! I’m so glad you’re here. You can read the guidelines here. You will find they are exactly like Shannon’s from Rocks in My Dryer. I’m excellent at copying and pasting. Some changes may occur in the future, but for now, the host is the only difference in this carnival.}

Have a Works-For-Me Wednesday tip you’d like to share?  I’d love for you to join us!  Please note that the links will close at 8 pm CST tonight, in order to keep away the spammers!

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Works for Me Wednesday Participants

1. NUTRITION Q & A – Kelly the Kitchen Kop
2. Living With Lindsay (Two Second Decorating Fix)
3. Betty Beguiles (Custom Made Vintage Dresses)
4. Audra Krell (Books)
5. Upstatemomof3
6. “Cents”able Momma (Roboform to save time on Freebie Signups)
7. Smockity Frocks (Funfetti Cake from Scratch)
8. Home School Dad (A Place For Gloves)
9. Laura @ Heavenly Homemakers (Pause Your Nose! again)
10. The Salty Momma (Chicken Overnight)
11. The Diaper Diaries (online protection)
12. Amy @ Finer Things (less me, more Him)
13. Muthering Heights – Online Check-In For Air Travel
14. Heather @ Just Doing My Best (saving on newspapers)
15. Lisa @ Stop and Smell the Chocolates (momfaves.com)
16. Homemaker Barbi (Must-Have Baby Shower Gifts)
17. This Side of Eternity (budget veggies)
18. PASS THE TORH (Everglades travel tips)
19. TrentTribe (Cold Sore Home Remedy)
20. Mother Hen (Homemade cheese garlic biscuits
21. Rina@Into Still Waters (Raising Helpful Children)
22. Keri (Level Mt. Magazine)
23. Green Baby Guide (Secondhand Cribs)
24. Nicol (storing tax documents)
25. Living Locurto (Home Office Closet)
26. It Feels Like Chaos (a timer)
27. mombrud (velcro in the laundry)
28. Hillary @ Dunham Diaries (Consignment Sale Tips)
29. MamaMay (Finding Playgrounds!)
30. A Simple Walk (lard and sugar)
31. Weird, Unsocialized HS\’ers (avoiding library fines)
32. Kaycee (Home Flu Remedies)
33. Cooking During Stolen Moments (30 minute meals get real)
34. Lisa@BlessedwithGrace(feeding a sick toddler)
35. Nicole @ Here\’s The Diehl (cutting boards)
36. The Happy Housewife ~ Date Nights at Home
37. Kristen (barley chili)
38. Happy to be at Home ~ Seed Chart
39. Tasha @ Hectic Calm (uses for vinegar)
40. warillever (home preschool)
41. Mulberry Spot (Composting)
42. Frugal Girls! (Homemade 409 & Shout)
43. Rachel (Great Granola and Measuring Honey)
44. Daiquiri (help constipated baby)
45. Bake at 350 (Shapely Cut-out Cookies)
46. Working Mom (Toy Bag)
47. Kirsty @ Momedy ~Tips for Surviving \’til Spring in Style!
48. Not So Perfect(sleepmask)
49. Mom of Faith~Frugal Laundry Softening
50. Raise Them Up (Toy Box Idea)
51. Holly@Homebody(Lunch Bag Microwave Popcorn)
52. Creative2xmom (Nutritious Pumpkin Smoothie)
53. Elizabe
th (Wiggle for Energy)

54. Kayren (Keeping Cut Potatoes From Browning)
55. Making Money Keeping Money (Free Breakfast)
56. ElizabethG (mix it up)
57. Audrey (Olive Oil Bottle)
58. Katie (Color Dice Learning Activity)
59. Kristin -The Goat (Fabulous Felt)
60. Nicole (free dvd rentals)
61. NerdFamily Food (Zuppa Toscanna Soup Knockoff)
62. Melanie (Kid\’s Basket)
63. NerdFamily (Sheet Storage)
64. Carolina Mama (Virtual Prayer & A Giveaway)
65. Tracey * Personal Pens
66. Gennaro
67. Tonya (iTouch Education Apps)
68. the BLAH BLAH BLAHger (laser levels)
69. Innkeeper Seely (warm winter fruit part 2)
70. Sandra @ A Lot Of Savings (Recipe for Mexican Rice)
71. Kendra @FamilyMgrKendra (many uses of clothespins)
72. Cary@anewpath (The Drying Line)
73. se7en (book nook – calming the chaos)
74. Tina in Thailand (great group game)
75. BumbleBabyMommy – `$158 saved so far this year w/ coupons
76. Col @ life by muse (Being fully and radiantly YOU in relationships!)
77. Kirstin: copying from video to DVD
78. Jenni @ grueling homeschooling (vocabulary)
79. Linda C
80. Tina (laundry space saver)
81. Mommy Bee (movie content info resources)
82. Simply Sweet Home (recipe binder tips)
83. Miche @ Coordinated Chaos(Lent Ideas)
84. Modern Molly Mormon (Cheap Beauty Tips)
85. JanMary (yummy chicken stock)
86. Liza\’s Eyeview (Italian Greyhound)
87. Shelley@MyTreasureHunt (mural on baby/kids wall)
88. Heidi @ Blue Eyed Blessings (scalloped punch – craft challenge)
89. momstheword (Managing kid\’s toys)
90. Broke Girl (Beauty products from your Kitchen)
91. HealthBeginsWithMom (Winter Blues)
92. Mom2ThreeAdoptedSibs(Give it all away!)
93. Kate (Home Remedies)
94. momsfrugal (GUEST POST)
95. TuTu\’s (Sibling Rivalry)
96. MemeGRL (bake it in a bar!)
97. BusyMom (Birthday Treats)
98. Help! Morning sickness…
99. Jen@Balancing Beauty and Bedlam(Cooking with kids)
100. steadymom (intentional cleaning system)
101. Mary Ann(recycled WFMW tips)
102. Tracey @ Girls to Grow (Organizing Paper)
103. Anne @ Teachng Two (kids stuff)
104. Mari (vegetable chopper)
105. Organizing using baskets – a roundup
106. Kim (Affiliate Links)
107. Lori ~ Simple Life at Home (Brining Order to Life!!)
108. Tara @ Feels like home (Lil Rinser for shampooing)
109. Mandy @ N\’ Stitches Desig
ns

110. Stop the Ride (use toilet paper tubes)
111. Raising Olives (cloth napkins)
112. Girls in White Dresses
113. Girls in White Dresses (treasuring kids\’ artwork)
114. Lamp Unto My Feet (Journal & Giveaway)
115. A Happy Heart at Home (should have done)
116. flexible dreams (car tip and giveaway)
117. Fairion – Craigslist
118. Sarah (list of memes)
119. mideastmom (Homeschool Organization
120. Aunt LoLo (Fleece blanket tutorial)
121. Counting Sprinkles (Extracurriculars)
122. A Full Heart (Closet Organization)
123. Lynette3boys (hiccup remedy)
124. Allyson @ A Heart For Home (Making Money at Home by Writing Articles for eHow)
125. Julie From Inmates (Wrinkle Help)
126. Tree Climbing Mom (peace at the dinner table)
127. Suzanne (Need Info—Samaritan Ministries)
128. Donielle @ Raising Peanuts (Natural Cold Remedies)
129. Kimm at Reinvented (lettered signs)
130. Bailey\’s Leaf (Top Load Washer Maintenance)
131. Jennifer @ Joyful & Graceful Living (Keeping Colds at Bay)
132. KLee (babysitting co-op)
133. Alicia (early bed time for kids)
134. Sandra (date night)
135. Jenna @ Newlyweds (Love)
136. Stephanie (Batch Cooking)
137. In…Fence (Toddler Handwashing)
138. Camian Academy (Wii Rules)
139. Apples and Jammies(character with Dr. Seuss)
140. Karen @ Living Well on Less (where do you sell unwanted items online?)
141. Nichole @ A Call to Higher Places (Freezing Meals for when Baby comes!)
142. Jean Stockdale (How Not to Lose Your Mind!)
143. Stephanie @ The Coupon Game (Easy Natural Peanut Butter)
144. MC (Group Excercise)
145. UnfinishedMom (Help for New Bloggers )
146. Susan @ Practicing Thrift (Try TVP!)
147. Vanessa @ Simple Bliss (easy recycling)
148. Erin (productive afternoons)
149. Parenting the Tiniest of Miracles (My Wipe Warmer)
150. Buffie (Uses For Spaghetti Sauce)
151. Abbi @Proverbs 31 Living (searching a blog)
152. Joyful Johnsons (iGoogle)
153. Regina (making homemade bread easier)
154. FamilyMakesCents (Save $ eating out)
155. Beth/Mom2TwoVikings (EZ small motor/writing practice
156. Laryssa @Heaven In The Home (Healthy Birthday Cake)
157. Leanne @ SettheWoods (Getting Kids to Eat)
158. Everything Moms (LAUNDRY SANITY!!)
159. songbirdtiff- pretty & free jewelry display
160. Lisa (Turn a Cake Mix into something special!)
161. pennypinchinmomma
( 40 day menu plan)

162. Homemaker\’s Cottage (homemade baby food)
163. Alison (Easy Workouts)
164. Lynn(cooking with kids)
165. Sheila ~ To Love, Honor and Vacuum (organizing photos & mementoes)
166. melissa * 320 sycamore (quick fix for ribbon)
167. kristen@PajamaMama(family rules)
168. Kelli @ Country Life is Best (Best Cornbread Ever!)
169. Kristen@PajamaMama(homemade butter)
170. Susan @ Sinner Saved (stop stuff sticking to baking tins)
171. LFinn(using the library)
172. samvach (grammar with mad libs)
173. Michelle @ Saving Some Green (Activity box)
174. Frugal Carol – My Book Pile….
175. Phoebe @ CENTS TO GET DEBT FREE (GARDEN SPREADSHEET)
176. Nicole (coffee)
177. TidyMom (Magical Pie)
178. Stacey @ Mom Must Write (Occupying Toddlers While Cooking)
179. Katie @ Listmaker\’s Life (Towel Saver)
180. Kim (Quilting tip)
181. LANA- Starting your own home daycare
182. Molly Green (think outside the box)
183. Sonshine(lunch containers)
184. Jeni (Cleaning Motivation)
185. Giving Up on Perfect (once a month cooking)
186. *Michelle* (GOD\’s pharmacy)
187. Organizing Mommy (roasted veggies)
188. Calico Zak(Pic Nik)
189. Taylor@ HM 101 (instilling the reading habit in your kids)
190. Kristin (online giveaways!)
191. Tanna (WordPress Plugins)
192. The Glamorous Life!
193. Elena @My Domestic Church – Men\’s necktie pillows
194. Paula@Organizing Tips (Before You Organize)
195. BerryMorins Bits and Tips – Favorite Things
196. Christi @ Jealous Hands (math games)
197. Saving Money…Living Better (Weekend Getaways on a Shoestring)
198. Joni (Blending Baby Food)
199. Beth (Pancake Syrup Recipe)
200. Kara(variation of a good thing)
201. Many Little Blessings (Choosing Your Lenten Sacrifice)
202. Tracie @ livethelifeyoudream (Lost Card)
203. Sarah (using credit cards for good!)
204. Julie @ Organizement (making time for yourself)
205. Saver Queen (SAVE on your warehouse membership)
206. Teresa-Fabric Organization
207. HoustonMom (clothes resale)
208. Nichole (brushing teeth)
209. Milehimama (Get kids drink powdered milk)
210. Sandwiched (Great Wii game)
211. Brenda (A Home Page)
212. Kama (Naked Thursday)
213. Rebekah @MundaneMusings (scheduled blogging)
214. Kari (Uses For Mustard)
215. sarah (paint touch up)
216. Hadley – children\’s art area
>217. missy@missysthrifty (FREE Entertainment)
218. Petersonclan (Kitchen Hint)
219. Ginger (7 Ways His Word Works 4 Me!)
220. Beulah (Easy Snacks)
221. Wani (dinner game show idea!)
222. What\’s Cooking (Organizing Your Pantry)
223. mama2tlc (breastfeeding)
224. Lori (pizza cutter tip)
225. Aunt Murry (I need some advice)
226. mama2tlc (red envelope day)
227. Sharon
228. kc jayhawk (lent)
229. Kolfinnas Korner (labels for cash)
230. Lori @ Outside the Laundry Rm
231. Nikki (pregnancy)
232. Muses of Megret (natural solution for heartburn)
233. Amber @ The Fruit of Her Hands (Dress Form from ducktape)
234. Thia
235. kcjayhawk (free shutterfly photo book)
236. angie
237. Missy@Simply Red(picture album purse organization)
238. Bloom Where You\’re Planted!
239. The Prudent Homemaker (Honeybaked Ham)
240. Denise @ Full Nest (Ditching Cable
241. AliAnn (faster grocery shopping)
242. His Girl (Survival for the Single Working Mom)
243. Jenny Lynn (Simple financial peace)
244. Michelle (diapers.com)
245. Ann (cleaning a George Forman grill)
246. Farm Fresh Jessica
247. Susan @ Fruitful Words (baby steps to change)
248. Amy @ MOMSTOOLBOX (helping kids remember)
249. Julie Stiles Mills (mom coping strategy #1: sleep)
250. Garibay Soup (Get out of a slump)
251. Lynne
252. Lynne(Weight-Excercize)
253. Katie @ Making This Home
254. Our Nifty Notebook (Branson, the new Disney)
255. Sandy@TheDailyPoop
256. ChickyMama (3-for-1! cleaning tips)
257. Samantha (1st grade writing)
258. What\’s Cooking (Homemade Croutons)
259. Kate\’s kitchen: broccoli and cheese soup
260. Shannon (benefits of nourishing foods)
261. heather (dixie cup alternative)
262. The Cozy Country Home (What Works For YOU question?)
263. SIG (Get Amazon Gift Cards and time sensitive SWAGBUCK CODE!)
264. Trixie @ Farmhomelife (Six Top Websites for Free Samples)
265. Penny Raine
266. hotomom
267. Cyndi L. (Free is good!)
268. Michelle
269. Stacey- Getting rid of Cradle Cap
270. Sweetie on Blended Family Communications
271. Tracy (Manual HD Switcher)
272. Alexandra(MP3 Old Time Radio Shows for Homeschooling and Family Listening)
273. Kara (Thrifty Table Makeover)
274. Julie Stiles Mills (all natural sinus help)
275. Richelle (free food)
276. FamilyMakesCents (Kmart Clearance!)
277. Simply Catholic (I\’ll pray for you)
278. Amyswandering (Veggie Stix Chips)
279. Havingfunathome (cheap and easy laminating)
280. Amy Quinn
281. Tons of Sons ~ celebrating Lent and Easter
282. New Diva – Help for Winter Skin
283. Sharon B (No Laundry room)
284. Kristine (Free Labels and Business Cards)
285. Amber @ Classic Housewife (Pimple Home Remedy)
286. Vanderbilt Wife (baby must-haves)
287. Suburban Matron (free ice cream at chick-fil-a)
288. Kaye (teaching kids important info)
289. Louise and Sean (Easy, free way to highlight your blog\’s archives)
290. Alisa-The Sweet Life (storing kids keepsakes)
291. Saving Money Ideas (Swagbucks)
292. Lynnet (easy cheap garlic bread)
293. Flowerpot – Tortilla Soup
294. Linda\’s Lunacy(Homemade Laundry Detergent)
295. Free 2 Be Frugal (THAT blue envelope)
296. Tifffany (Restaurant.com Coupon Code)
297. Janet @ Home Is Where God Sends You (Keeping in Touch)
298. Heather
299. Katie (cleaning with Bounce sheets)
300. Michelle
301. Wendy (Bible Study w/kids)
302. Jennifer (furniture dents in carpet)
303. Holly/Domestic Dork (adult allowance)
304. Susan @ Feeling Frugal (Watch TV for Free)
305. Sarah@VintageChicHome
306. saverchic – No More Lost Socks!
307. Robin Rane\’ All Things Heart and Home
308. exhale. return to center. (laundry basket clean-up)
309. Christine (taming tantrums)
310. Sara@Learning the Frugal Life(Craft Cabinet)
311. Jo Ann @ Just As I Am (cutting onions)
312. Mozi Esme
313. Catherine (my grey flannel shirt)
314. Tiff
315. Martia (Good Grammar)

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Kristen
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Posterific! (Giveaway)

{Stay for a giveaway with 2 winners!}
I love pictures of my children.
All of my children. Together. In one photo.
But if you’re a parent, you know how challenging this can be.
And by challenging I mean the wailing and gnashing of teeth.

(My own).
So, when I capture a rare photo of all three, I want to do something special with it. Like mint it in gold or tattoo it to my……
You know.

I knew this unplanned picture of my kids next to my parent’s pool was something special. But it’s been sitting in my digital photo album since the end of summer.

I jumped at the chance to have this digital picture made into a poster print.
Online Poster Printing is an awesome company where you upload your digital pictures and within 24 hours, you get this:

It blends in so well with the professional portraits in my family room!  My parents saw it this weekend and couldn’t believe the quality. They wanted to know what studio I used to enlarge the professional-looking image!

Isn’t this 16×20 print amazing? The poster prints are very affordable too!
Online Poster Printing is giving two readers a 16×20 poster print just like mine!
Please visit their site and tell me what you would do with your poster print if you win! 
You must live in the US or Canada to be eligible for free shipping. If you win and live outside of the US, you can pay for shipping and also enjoy the free product.
I will announce the winners Thursday evening.
Kristen
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Bake at 350

After the Christmas holidays, we got new next door neighbors.
Now, y’all know I’m an introvert. And neighboring doesn’t come naturally to me. Just ask my two friends. 
I’m not exactly un-neighborly, I just need a little time or a gift.
Oh, I kid.
I met the new neighbors in passing. They have a little boy around my older kid’s age and they all became fast friends. (My kids get their friendliness from their daddy. Good thing).
At the end of our  really bad week, the little neighbor boy showed up at our door with these: (His Mom made them)
I wanted to weep.  Because God gave me a deep love for The Cookie. 
I also tried to explain to my kids that such excellent cookie-baking skills were not the norm. (Not only were they beautiful, they were delicious!)
Well. My neighborly gene kicked in and I wanted to reciprocate. But before you panic, I knew baking was out of the question. The bar, it was high.
So. I packed a heart-shaped tin full of cherry sours and sent my hubby and toddler over to deliver the candy and to pick up my son from his playdate.
And that’s when my hubby learned that my neighbor is a blogger. She has an adorable baking blog named Bake at 350.  My son saw her taking pictures of these (why, yes, those are homemade hostess cupcakes!!):
“Are you taking pictures for your blog? Because my Mom has a blog and she takes pictures of everything. Even when we have the flu.” 
And then he said something like (he couldn’t remember his exact wording), “I bet you think your blog is better than my Mom’s blog.”
Yeah. 
I think it was around that time (according to my hubby) that our toddler found the container of cherry sours and spilled them on the floor of her beautiful home. Of course, my children did not start eating them off our neighbor’s floor because we are not THAT kind of family.
Ahem.
When my hubby turned to leave, he said something to the effect of, “Maybe my wife will tell you about her blog.”
She responded, “Oh, your son told me. I’ve already bookmarked it in my favorites.”
I’m pretty sure my new awesome neighbor didn’t bat an eye when she heard the name of my blog. Considering my kids were eating her Valentine’s treat from the floor.
Irony is a funny thing.
I went all the way to Blissdom to meet my first real life bloggers and it turns out there’s one next door. A baking one at that!
I’m totally offering to sample her desserts. I’m nice like that. 
This weekend, they came over so we could visit and get to know each other better. I can’t tell you how nervous I was to invite them. I mean, what was I going to serve? Dessert? Yes, please come for coffee and pretzels.
But then I had a genius moment: I served Girl Scout cookies.
Because who doesn’t like the girls in brown? 
Plus, it turns out I’m a pro at opening those packages. Who knew?
{This is where you go visit my bloggy neighbor and new real life friend at Bake at 350. I think I can talk her into a baking giveaway. What would y’all think of that??)

Kristen
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THAT Family Tree Society-Issue 31

Picture of the Week:

The Week in Review: Yes, we are a pizza-loving family. It’s our most served and eaten meal (just because it’s served doesn’t always mean it’s eaten. Think on that nugget for awhile). We recently ordered this party pizza for a little get together. It was the size of our table!
Introduction into The Society: Sandra of Celebrate Every Day is the newest branch on The Family Tree. She submitted this post as proof-positive of her THAT family moment.

1.    Tell us a little about your blog (name/reason why you blog): 


I blog at “Celebrate Every Day” which comes from the idea that each day is different than the day before and should be celebrated! Our blog started out as a family blog to keep the far-away family members up to date on our lives. But as readership grew (by grew, I mean more than just family and close friends), I began doing fewer “TMI” posts and more on preschool activities, life in ministry, and the highlights of our lives.  

2.    How long have you blogging? 

I’ve been blogging at this site for one year.

3.    How would you define THAT family?  

You know THAT family when they are headed your way, and when they have left the area. I grew up in Oklahoma, tornado alley. And even though we now live in Pennsylvania, I still feel like I’m in tornado alley!  

4.    When did you discover you were a part of THAT family? 

I’m my opinion, most families who consider themselves “THAT” family have at least one boy. When my second son was born I knew life would be an adventure each and every day. Plus, my husband is a pastor. So we have more eyes on us than the usual family.  

5.    Where can we find your blog? 

Kristen
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DIYP # 35 Leopard Print Painting

This is a beautiful love story.


Once upon a time there was an end table. It had a southwest flare. My style changed, but my budget didn’t, so I gave my little table an extreme makeover.
Before:
(this is a similar piece)


After:
Better, huh?

I painted the little table red, added a leopard print design and new leopard knobs (from Ebay)
It cost less than $20 and I adore this little table and get compliments on it all the time!

Here’s how I did the leopard painting:

1. Tape off the area you want to paint

2. I painted the inside red.

3. Use black paint and a small brush to paint little black leopard shapes.


4. Use a darker brown and paint inside the leopard spots.



5. Add a funky knob.

I love my little table! Before you throw something out, try painting it first! Or the next time  you see a cheap table at a thrift store for $5, don’t pass it up!

Check out Kimba’s for more DIY projects!
Kristen
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Why I’m a Texan

I love Texas.

But not because everything is bigger here. (And if you could see our mosquitoes, fire ant hills or plastic surgery results you’d never doubt that fact).

I love Texas because I can say y’all, find an abundance of sweet tea and have a heat stroke in May.

But I’m a Texan for one reason: my family.

I don’t talk about my parents often because I value their privacy.

I have to avoid mentioning them in the majority of my posts because they are such an integral part of my life. It is fuller because of them. My days are richer with my children growing up with their grandparents.

I spent the first 10 of my 14 married years living thousands of miles from them. Several years ago when we decided to leave full time ministry, we came home to Texas. We re-entered their lives, broken people. Our dreams were cloudy, our pockets were empty. Our hope, gone.

And it’s the best decision we’ve ever made.

Nothing makes my heart smile more than seeing my toddler run into their arms, squealing their names. Nothing makes me laugh harder than watching my Dad wrestle and tease my son. Nothing makes a lump form in my throat quicker than watching my mom play dolls with my daughter.

I don’t know if we will always live near them, but today, it is one of my greatest treasures.

I’m a Texan for one reason: family.

It’s also the reason I might move to North Dakota. 

(Just keepin’ it real).

Mom and Dad, thank you for enriching my life, for loving me, for creating a beautiful inheritance of faith and for letting my son beat you at Clue.

And thank you for changing your plans this weekend so you can watch our toddler while we celebrate our son’s first Boy Scout badge.

I love you.
Food for the Soul:
Proverbs 13:22 “A good man leaves an inheritance for his children’s children.”
P.S. Why do you live where you live?
I know not everyone has parents that they would choose to live near or that are still living, I am sorry. I pray God fills that place in your heart if He hasn’t already. Home is where the heart is.
Kristen
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{Sincerely ‘Fro Me to You} Idle Hands

{Carnival Guidelines

Welcome to Sincerely ‘Fro Me to You, where we post pictures that won’t make it into a scrap book because a.) we don’t scrapbook b.) the pictures are embarrassing and/or terrible c.) we are lazy. 

Feel free to join in!

You know the old saying, “Idle hands are the Devil’s tools?”
It’s true.

And it turns out the Devil and toddlers are cohorts.

Buds, friends, BFF’s.














My girl loves water. She loves washing her hands 49 times a day or taking 5 baths a day.

Or playing around in the potty. She’s not picky about her water.

We did this a lot last week. I put shaving cream on a cookie sheet, donned her mini apron, rolled up her sleeves and let her play.

We wrote the alphabet, drew faces and balanced the checkbook.

Looks fun, doesn’t it?

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When that got old we moved the fun to the tub. I squirted the shaving cream on a floating plastic tray and she abused her brother’s hot wheels.

I love those little hands. 

Busy and idle.


Kristen
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Vintage Pearl {Giveaway}

*Update to my Update* The re-drawn winner is Norse, jesica and Boden! Congrats! Thanks for entering, please go visit Vintage Pearl and buy yourself something! You deserve it! 

The most delicious Etsy store giveaway is happening.
Today.
On my blog.

I’m sure many of you have heard of the darling Vintage Pearl. Her hand-stamped sentiments are very popular and simply lovely.

Look what she made me:
Only mine has my children’s names on it. 
(Although they might respond more quickly if I called them by these names…)

I love wearing their names around my neck!

Unless I’m mad at them.

Kidding.

Sort of.

I think this jewelry makes the most delightful gifts (and not only for yourself)! Her prices are so reasonable and the Vintage Pearl designs are classy and elegant.

Today, Vintage Pearl is giving away: Winner’s Choice of one custom piece!!
{Swoon}

Go visit her beautiful store and come back here and leave a comment on what you’d choose if Mr. Random chose you. 

Erin is a SAHM with four young children. She’s an amazing artist and she inspires me! You can read more on her blog here
I’ll choose a random winner Thursday afternoon.

Kristen
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WFMW’s New Home

Okay, I just need to scream:
{Squeeeealllll!!!}
All better now.
I am delighted and thrilled to be the new host of Works for Me Wednesday, formerly of Rocks in My Dryer.
Shannon asked me if I’d be interested in taking her carnival over and I gave it some deep thought.
You know for about 0 seconds.
I love the carnival. I love the helpful tips. I love the community. 
I love that I have the best sock organizational system in the world because of Works for Me Wednesday (Shannon’s tip).
And now for my tip: creating WFMW ideas & a secret
I think our homes are full of helpful tips, but after participating for a year, sometimes my idea bank runs low (a lot like another bank I have….) But sharing what you do to make your life easier can be so helpful: like keeping a squeegee in the shower to wipe down the glass doors after every shower or using Clorox wipes to clean the bathroom sinks every morning so it doesn’t get out of hand or writing down items on your to do list even after you’ve completed them.
See? There are so many things we do that can help others.
(Okay, except for that last one. I’m pretty sure I need medication for that one).
It seems I’ll be needing some handy tips to share with you in the months and years (!) to come. I keep a small notepad in my purse and I jot down blogging ideas as they come to me. If I don’t, I can’t remember an hour later! 
I get asked a lot how I link up in the top 5 or so (usually) at WFMW
And I’m going to tell you (can you feel the suspense?): I read the carnival guidelines and look for time clues, like 10 pm (CST) and I refresh. A. Lot.  I also insert my post link (permalink) into a random Mr. Linky on my blog or a used Mr. Linky. I delete it immediately after it’s shown up.  When a new Mr. Linky is put up, it grabs your oldest link.  It saves me from having to type very quickly, which I don’t do very well. I discovered this little tip by accident!
So, that’s one of my deep dark secrets. 
Stick around for more.
I hope you’ll join me next week!
For more tips, visit Works for Me Wednesday!

P.S. I’m hosting a fabulous Etsy store giveaway from Vintage Pearl! Click here to enter!
Kristen
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I’m Not Going to Candy-Coat This

Last week my blog was all puffy hearts, sparkly rainbows and glittery unicorns.
Okay, maybe not the unicorn part, but it did feel very Lisa Frank-ish with the S.W.A.K. Carnival in full swing.
And I loved it. I enjoyed reading your love stories and feeling inspired. I think if we compiled my posts with your comments, it would make a pretty excellent marriage guide.
But, WYSINWYG (what you see is not what you get).
Because, y’all, I was having a bad week.
I couldn’t exactly stop the love-fest with a “Oh my word, do I have a story for y’all!”
So, other than a few cryptic tweets, I waited until today.
Because as it turns out, I rock the THAT family moments.
The week started off with my 2 year old and a horrible infection.  While I will not go into details (be thankful), I will tell you that on Tuesday, my baby endured the most horrific procedure in the office with a pain shot, while her Dad and the nurses held her down.
I just wept quietly in the corner.
My knees go weak just recalling it.
(She is completely better and God had more than a little to do with that).
That same afternoon, my 9 year old returned from school looking pale. She was diagnosed with the Flu (strand B, not covered by the flu shot we got) the next morning in the same office. Our reputation proceeds us. 
I brought home $125 worth of Tamiflu for the entire family. My left eye is still twitching from writing that check.
My son, the healthy one, continued going to school. Towards the end of the week, I had run out of favors and actually had to pick him up from school. I let my oldest stay in her pajamas because it was going to be a quick trip.
And that’s when my car stalled in the car line.
With eleventeen million cars behind me and in front of me.
I think I handled the white trash moment in stride. With the toddler on my hip and my flu-ridden, pajama-clad embarrassed girl on the sidewalk, I directed traffic around my flashing car.
My Mom pulled up, (after a quick, desperate call) rolled down her window and said, “You really are THAT family.”
I wasn’t about to argue with my only ride home. Plus, my Mom is a smart lady.
My hubby rescued my car. 
He was happy to report that I had just run out of gas.
Surprisingly, this did not make me feel better.
P.S. I would tell you that the day after I wrote this post, we had to pull the car over (in route to a Valentine’s lunch) and let one of my kids puke in front of Whataburger. But I figured you wouldn’t believe it.  Because I sure don’t!
Kristen
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Because a Potty Post Seems Appropriate

The queen is on the throne, y’all.
And you’ll never believe how it happened.

I went away on a weekend trip, and my hubby potty trained our 2 year old while I was gone.
I KNOW!!!
I tried to talk him into starting a blog called “How I potty-trained my 2 year old while her Mom was at #Blissdom09,” but he was hesitant.
Instead, I convinced him to share his tips here (because seriously, she’s had very few accidents, is not using pull ups and really gets it!) He wanted me to convey that when I left town, our toddler had a strong interest and a new package of Dora panties. So, he can’t take full credit.
Whatever.
Before I outline his best-selling potty training tips, I have to tell you something funny.
In the middle of one of the sessions, my phone vibrated. I knew it was important because it wasn’t the normal text message my hubby had been sending. I snuck away and had this conversation:
“Hey, she’s going to the bathroom really well, but I must be doing something terribly wrong!”
“What happened???”
“Well, sometimes the pee shoots in 7 1/2 different streams! Why? What am I doing wrong? It’s like a fountain and I just got hit in the face!”
It was really hard to return to my session. Because I wanted to continue rolling on the floor laughing.
What a guy. Huh?
So. Without further ado, the tips (according to him, but written by me):
1. Let your child be in the bathroom with you to watch, flush, participate.
Me: Yeah, so we have no privacy. Works well for potty-training. But I draw the line at letting someone else wipe me. Because our girl is very helpful!
2. Watch for signs. Your child will let you know when they are ready. When they are interested, take the opportunity. Don’t miss this window.
Me: I mentioned to my hubby before my trip that she was interested. But it was a really inconvenient time to start potty training. I probably would have told her just to keep using the diaper. I’m so glad he didn’t.
3. Let your child participate. Give them choices of underwear and be flexible. Our daughter didn’t use the cute potty chair my wife bought once. If I’d forced the issue, she wouldn’t have trained.
Me: Anyone need a cute, barely used potty chair throne? It’s perfect for efficiency.
4. My older kids really helped. Our toddler really trained herself. It was easy because she wanted to learn, she had an audience, a lot of encouragement, new underwear, and we stayed at home a lot.
Me: Rent a big kid.
5. I rewarded her every time she used the bathroom with a small piece of candy (an M&M; or Skiddle).
Me: She’s peeing rainbows. But she’s peeing!!
[So, to summarize: I did not go on a lovely weekend all by myself and leave my hubby to potty training our toddler. Because I would never do that!]

Overall, potty training has been really easy. Hate us.
The only problem I see, is she wants to stay naked ALL THE TIME.
So we’re moving to a nudist colony.

And
, she pulls down her panties and shows random people at Wal Mart her business.
But other than those two minor issues, we’re good.


Kristen
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THAT Family Tree Society-Issue 30

Picture of the Week:















The Week in Review: What a week! To everyone who joined in The S.W.A.K. Carnival-thank you! It was so much fun and inspiring. There are some lucky men out there. While the love-fest was going on, we had quite a week. Oh, the blog fodder that comes my way. I should feel blessed (in a twisted way). I had fun with the S.W.A.K. but I’m looking forward to talking about being THAT family. Because I’m an expert. Unfortunately.

Introduction into The Society: Please help me welcome The Sherman Tribe to the club.

1. Tell us a little about your blog?
My name is Anita and Ijust love blogging. My new blog is The Sherman Tribe due to some rude people I deleted my old one :sniff:. I blog about all sorts of things. Mostly my family.
2. How long have you blogging? 
My first blog was started I believe in 2002.
3. How would you define THAT family? 
THAT family is the family who people invite out at the last minute hoping you and you tribe can not come. THAT family is the family who walks in a row and looks like stair steps. THAT family is the one who keeps getting asked if we are done having kids. THAT family is the one who can live in a small space and make due, because it what the Lord has given them
4. When did you discover you were a part of THAT family? 
When we were told how amazing we were…and had to laugh. Then it got personal and was asked how much government assistance we get…NONE! We realized then we were THAT family! We love being THAT family! THAT Jesus lovin’, pro-life, homeschooling, semi-hippie family.
5. Where can we find your blog? HERE

Kristen
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DIYP #34 Framed Letters & {SWAK Winners}

{Keep reading for an important announcement!}

Do you need a fun kid-friendly activity for the long weekend?

Try a Valentine’s Bottle Cap Necklace. I tell you how over at Blissfullly Domestic.

And now for another super easy idea!

This is for all of you readers, watchers, passers-by of the weekly DIYP.

You can do this. And the possibilities are endless:
Grab some letters in the scrapbooking department of your local craft store:
I’ve been trying to figure out a way to use the cool metal letters I found on clearance:

Grab an empty frame. I found this one 90% off in the leftover Christmas decor:
S-p-e-l-l it out.
I just glued down the letters and stuck it in the frame:
I have a lot of old frames, so I could get out of hand with this little DIYP!

If you haven’t had a chance to visit the S.W.A.K. carnival, go now and read more than 150 inspiring love stories!

Or at least take a hint and go kiss someone! Happy Valentine’s Day.
P.S. Don’t miss next weekend’s project! I’m going to show you how I painted that little leopard lamp table!

SWAK Valentine’s Carnival Door Prize Winners:


Thank you to everyone for participating!

These winners were randomly chosen from The SWAK Carnival, Marriage Killers and Marriage Thrillers (plus the additional entries from the Door Prize Preview)! Whew!

If you see your name, please email me your mailing address within 5 days (or another winner will be chosen) and please put your prize in the memo to avoid confusion!

With A Southern Flair- ”His” & “Hers” Hand towels (Value $20) Winner: Proud Mommy

From *Me Tees-“My husband/wife Rocks” t-shirts (Value $50) 

Bid My Cleaning- $200 gift certificate Winner: Striving to be More

Sorme Lip Gloss- (Value $10) Winner: Poop on Jelly

Sheila Wray Gregoire-2 audio downloads (value $10 each) Winners: Joy in the Journey, Tidy Mom

Pampering Beki- hand-stamped silver ‘Love’ necklace (Value $23) Winner: The Run Amuck

Sarah’s Blue Castle s="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">$20 gift certificate Winner: If I Only Had Super Powers

The IE Mommy-Chic Bud Earphones (Value $45) Winner: Mrs. Smith

4 Reluctant Entertainers “Married, but Not Engaged”book 

Decor To Adore- Vintage Valentine Corsage (Value $14) 
Winner: BeckyJoMama

Things Remembered- Heart keepsake box (Value $25) Winner: Garibay Soup
 
14k gold Heart earrings (Value $25) yle="font-family:'times new roman';">Winner: Tales from a Shop*a*holic Mommy

Tote Bag-(Value $20) Winner: Extreme Housewifeing

Ring Watch by Jenni (Value $42) Winner: PS He Loves You

Ring Lipstick by Jenni (Value $22) Winner: Mommie Daze

The Love Dare” book (Value $15) Winner: Books N Boys


Better Love Now!” book (Value $20) Winner: Prayerful Driven Life

Congratulations! Please send me your address as soon as you can! kristenwrites@yahoo.com

Kristen
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{S.W.A.K} Marriage Thrillers

{Please leave a comment to be entered for one of these fabulous door prizes. All winners will be announced on the Valentine’s Day DIYP post on Saturday! Comments will close at 10 pm CST Friday night.}

With A Southern Flair-2 Monogrammed “His” & “Hers” Hand towels (Value $20)

From *Me Tees-a Matching His/Hers “My husband/wife Rocks” t-shirts (Value $50)

Bid My Cleaning- $200 gift certificate for house, carpet cleaning, (most of US)

Sorme Lip Gloss-sponsored by PS He Loves You (Value $10)

Sheila Wray Gregoire-2 marriage audio downloads (value $10 each)

Pampering Beki- a beautiful hand-stamped silver ‘Love’ necklace (Value $23)

Sarah’s Blue Castle $20 gift certificate to this great Etsy store! Check out her fun items.

The IE Mommy-A Pair of Chic Bud Earphones with Swarovski crystals in a collectible tin (Value $45) 

4 Reluctant Entertainers is donating a copy of the book she co-authored “Married, but Not Engaged”. You can read more here.

Decor To Adore- a beautiful Vintage Valentine Corsage from this sweet Etsy store (Value $14)

Here are a few more door prizes that were donated locally (so there isn’t a link):

Things Remembered- A beautiful heart keepsake box (Value $25)
14k gold Heart earrings (Value $25); An Adorable Tote Bag-(Value $20)
Ring Watch by Jenni (Value $42), Ring Lipstick by Jenni (Value $22)
The best-selling book “The Love Dare” from the Fireproof movie (Value $15)
Awesome marriage book “Better Love Now! Making your Marriage a Lifelong Love Affair (Value $20)

Link
Welcome to the last day of the S.W.A.K. Carnival! It’s been so inspiring reading your love stories. Please continue to read the posts, it’s worth the time! I enjoyed your comments so much on the Marriage Killers post yesterday and found some valuable marriage advice!

I’ve only been married once, to one man.

And although we’re creeping up on fifteen years, my experience is limited to my current (and only planned) marriage. I know not all men are the same and they all love differently. But I think God designed men from the same overall blueprint.

I think universally there are some things we can do to bring a thrill to our marriage.

You know, besides walking around naked all day.

Take Care of Yourself
One of the best things we can do for our marriage is taking care of ourselves. I think diet and exercise are important for our own health, but I’m talking about more than that. I think it’s vital that we feel good about ourselves. I think it offers our marriage a huge boost when we like who we are: physically, mentally, spiritually and even professionally. I think getting dressed everyday, showering, and feeling good about ourselves is important in our marriages. I want to look good for my hubby. I’m not saying I don’t have pajama days every once in a while, but I find it’s a lot harder to stay depr
essed when I take care of myself.

Have Fun Together
I love laughing with my hubby. Some of the best moments are the unplanned ones where we are carefree and silly. I think we need to remember to have fun! Nothing thrills my hubby more than when I give way to a schedule and get playful. Have fun together!! Hold hands, tickle each other, take bubble baths, kiss, laugh, go on walks! Let him paint your nails. Try his favorite hobby. Remember. Recapture. Refocus. Make memories. Sometimes the best thrill is to put aside our heavy responsibilities and troubles and rejoice together.

Time Away Together
I think this is a given marriage thriller! I love sneaking away with my man. Nothing recharges our marriage like the quiet and serenity of the two of us together. But if you’re like me, babysitters are costly, dates are infrequent and vacationing alone is rare. Plan it. Budget it. If you don’t, it won’t happen. My hubby and I attended this marriage conference last weekend. It was only three hours and $30 (which fit into our budget and schedule). It was just what we needed. And if it comes down to it and you just cannot ‘get away’, try Date Night in a Minivan!

Time Away Alone
Time together is vital, but so is time alone. I think too much time alone can yield itself to a marriage killer, but we all need to develop self-interest. My marriage has changed just in the last year because I’ve changed. This blog is a part of that transformation. Finding my voice and pursuing what I love (writing), has completed me. My hubby has supported me, encouraged me and challenged me to discover this part of me. It has enhanced our marriage because it has enhanced me. Find something for yourself outside of being a mom and wife. Do it for you! And allow your husband the same freedom.

Just Do It
Now you know I can’t talk about marriage thrillers without going here. Sex and intimacy are crucial for a healthy marriage. They just are. I know for some wives, sex is a chore. If you struggle in this area, invest in some good books, talk to your doctor, work on it. Do it for your marriage, for yourself. When this area of life is healthy, it’s easier to handle life’s up and downs together. When this area is suffering, it only heightens life’s hardships. God gave sex to a marriage to be the icing on the cake. And when it comes to cake, who doesn’t like the icing?

Kindness and Respect
I think this is a given and then I hear the way some women talk to and about their mates or I read blogs that dish out dishonor. We all have times in our marriage when it gets hard. It’s one of the aspects of a good marriage-one that’s worked through the difficult times. Putting your spouse’s needs before your own is a sign of generosity. It is a tender reminder of respect and kindness. And it’s in the little things we do: like greeting our spouse at the front door and bringing them their favorite snack…just because. It’s also in the way we respond to each other and how well we listen. Sometimes this common courtesy is missing and it leaves an ugly hole in our homes.

Inviting God into Your Marriage
This is the greatest act of intimacy. God created marriage and He created wife and husband for each other. He belongs in our marriage. We’ve all heard that one out two marriages end in divorce. These statistics are reduced to .5% of marriages that pray together. There’s something holy and beautiful about praying with your mate. It is a strengthening bond in a marriage. And it is thrilling to reach this level of intimacy. The day my marriage nearly ended was very painful. I truly believe God saved it because we turned to Him. He showed us how to love one another.

What are some other things we can do to add strength and health to our marriage? I can’t wait to hear from you!

The S.W.A.K Carnival is being sponsored by The Date Night Planner. This is a very helpful tool to help you plan a fantastic date night with your sweetheart! Go try it!
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{S.W.A.K.} Marriage Killers

{The weekly carnival Sincerely ‘Fro Me to You will return next Thursday!}

{Please leave a comment on today’s post for your entry for one of these fabulous door prizes. All winners will be announced on Valentine’s Day}

With A Southern Flair-2 Monogrammed “His” & “Hers” Hand towels (Value $20)

From *Me Tees-a Matching His/Hers “My husband/wife Rocks” t-shirts (Value $50)

Bid My Cleaning- $200 gift certificate for house, carpet cleaning, (most of US)

Sorme Lip Gloss-sponsored by PS He Loves You (Value $10)

Sheila Wray Gregoire-author and speaker, marriage audio downloads (value $5 each)

Pampering Beki- a beautiful hand-stamped silver ‘Love’ necklace (Value $23)

Sarah’s Blue Castle $20 gift certificate to this great Etsy store! Check out her fun items.

The IE Mommy-A Pair of Chic Bud Earphones with Swarovski crystals in a collectible tin (Value $45)


4 Reluctant Entertainers is donating a copy of the book she co-auth
ored “Married, but Not Engaged”. You can read more
here.

Decor To Adore- a beautiful Vintage Valentine Corsage from this sweet Etsy store (Value $14)

Here are a few more door prizes that were donated locally (so there isn’t a link):


Things Remembered- A beautiful heart keepsake box (Value $25)
14k gold Heart earrings (Value $25); An Adorable Tote Bag-(Value $20)
Ring Watch by Jenni (Value $42), Ring Lipstick by Jenni (Value $22)
The best-selling book “The Love Dare” from the Fireproof movie (Value $15)
Awesome marriage book “Better Love Now! Making your Marriage a Lifelong Love Affair (Value $20)

Welcome to the S.W.A.K. Carnival. Please link up your love story posts here and continue to visit all the great blogs. I’m still reading and feeling very inspired!

Even the best marriages, have difficult times.
There aren’t perfect marriages, just like there aren’t perfect people.
Jesus was the only perfect person and he never married. Maybe that’s why He stayed perfect. I’m just sayin‘.
There are several things that kill a marriage. We all know the obvious, like being unfaithful and lying.
I want to talk about the less obvious:

Using the words always and never

We have a word graveyard in our home. There are a few banished words (for adults too) that have been laid to rest. The words always and never are powerful words and are rarely true. How often do we say, “You always do ______” or “I never get to ______.” These words allow for gross exaggeration and put people on the defensive. May these words R.I.P. in your marriage.

Keeping Score

We are all naturally selfish people. It’s our nature to put ourselves first. But when we marry, we are to become one flesh, not two halves. Putting the needs of your spouse before your own will only help your marriage. I think playing this game will kill a marriage: “You can go here, if I can go there,” or “You can spend this if I can spend that.” This forces us to keep records to make everything fair (which is impossible). Put the other person first. Give and it will be given to you.

Putting your children first
I love my children. They are my heart. But they are needy little people and they are not afraid to voice their demands (or commands). It is easy to put kids first because the squeaky wheel, well, you know. And as a mother, it is natural to meet our children’s needs. I think moms must be very careful because seeds of resentment and jealousy can grow during these hectic years when we feel pulled in every direction. In those moments, I have to remind myself that I am a wife. And if my marriage is suffering due to lack of attention, so will my motherhood.

Lust and pornography

This is a big one and I could write many posts on what I’ve learned by reading some fabulous books about the way God created men (and after being married to one for 14 years!) Men are visual. And this is a temptation for probably 95% of them. I believe many more struggle with this issue than the church or wives know. Talk with your spouse. Be transparent, loving, forgiving. But know that this isn’t a part of God’s plan for a healthy marriage. And there is freedom and healing.

Money
Early in my marriage, 95% of our disagreements centered around money (which is funny considering we didn’t have any). This battle was frustrating and exhausting. We worked through numerous issues, got on a budget (which I recommend) and we made the decision to share our money and have nearly equal input. (I defer to my hubby because he’s more knowledgeable in this area). We also agreed not to spend a certain amount without telling one another. If this is an area you struggle in with your mate, I highly recommend Dave Ramsey’s program.

Withholding sex
Wives: Please read For Women Only: What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men. I think it is an essential book for every woman and I think it is a MUST READ for every woman. Check it out from the library, borrow it, buy it for $10. It completely changed the way I understand men, specifically my hubby. I learned how men think, what they retain, what they need, why they need it….and this information is based on hundreds of men, like our husbands. So, if you use sex in any other way in your marriage then the way God created it, it’s wrong and utterly damaging. Or if you don’t make yourself available to your husbands, you are making his life very challenging and you may even weaken his resolve for purity. And of course, your hubby needs to read this version For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women.

What have I left out? What do we need to watch out for that is destructive to a healthy marriage? Talk to me. (Friday we’ll be talking about Marriage Thriller!)

The S.W.A.K Carnival is being sponsored by The Date Night Planner. My hubby and I discovered a new restaurant with this interactive program. We are keeping track of some fun local spots. Check out this awesome tool!
Kristen
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The S.W.A.K. Carnival

Thank you for joining me today for the S.W.A.K. Valentine’s Carnival. I can’t wait to read your posts! (If you need info about the carnival, please click on the button).

It’s also the day for some fabulous door prizes! Please visit the following links and bookmark the sites. {Some of the door prizes will be given away today to people who link up a post, the others will be given away on Thursday and Friday, where you can enter by leaving a comment. ALL DOOR PRIZE WINNERS WILL BE ANNOUNCED ON VALENTINE’S DAY).


With A Southern Flair-2 Monogrammed “His” & “Hers” Hand towels (Value $20)

From *Me Tees-a Matching His/Hers “My husband/wife Rocks” t-shirts (Value $42)

Bid My Cleaning- $200 gift certificate for house, carpet cleaning, (most of US)

Sorme Lip Gloss-sponsored by PS He Loves You (Value $10)

Sheila Wray Gregoire-author and speaker, 2 marriage audio downloads (value $10 each)

Pampering Beki- a beautiful hand-stamped silver ‘Love’ necklace (Value $23)

Sarah’s Blue Castle $20 gift certificate to this great Etsy store! Check out her fun items.

The IE Mommy- e="font-family:'times new roman';">a pair of Chic Bud Earphones with Swarovski crystals in a collectible tin (Value $45)

4 Reluctant Entertainers is donating a copy of the book she co-authored “Married, but Not Engaged”. You can read more here.

Decor To Adore- a beautiful Vintage Valentine Corsage from this sweet Etsy store (Value $14)


Here are a few more door prizes that were donated locally (so there isn’t a link):

Things Remembered- A beautiful heart keepsake box (Value $25)
14k gold Heart earrings (Value $25); An Adorable Tote Bag-(Value $20)
Ring Watch by Jenni (Value $42), Ring Lipstick by Jenni (Value $22)
The best-selling book “The Love Dare” from the Fireproof movie (Value $15)
Awesome marriage book “Better Love Now! Making your Marriage a Lifelong Love Affair(Value $20)

I’m about halfway thru the Kiss Challenge. (This is a personal challenge I issued for the month of February to passionately kiss my hubby once a day).

It’s been fun.Link
My hubby has enjoyed it and he certainly hasn’t given me any lip.

If he had, I would have smacked him.

It’s also been challenging. Besides being out of town a few days, there have been a few times when I had to make myself kiss my hubby.

Shocking. I know. Especially since he’s so sexy.

Normally, if I was having a bad day and that last thing I wanted was a physical lip-lock session, I went with that thought.

But since I’ve committed to this challenge, on those yucky days, I pushed past those feelings and decided to be selfless. I was amazed at how quickly I relaxed, stopped thinking about my day and enjoyed it.

I am married to a good man.

He is my best friend. He is my favorite person in the world.

I love living my life with him. He knows me better than I know myself.

I pray my children share their lives with the soul mate God created for them.

Finding him is the greatest discovery of my life. Keeping him is the reward.

But. It is not easy.

After being married nearly fifteen years, I’m happy to say we’ve conquered some pretty heavy challenges. We’ve weathered some significant storms and are stronger because of them.

But taking the time to kiss, to hold hands, to engage every day is important. Crucial, even.

I have 15 more days of kissing.

No, that’s not right.

I have a lifetime.

The S.W.A.K Carnival is being sponsored by The Date Night Planner. This is a interactive tool to help you plan a fantastic date night with your mate.

http://www.viddler.com/player/e30be9db/

I can’t wait to be inspired by your stories!

SWAK Valentine’s Carnival Participants

1. Angie
2. Apron Strings Aflutter
3. Life At The Circus
4. Sandra (I Know He Loves Me When…)
5. Shara
6. Mrs.Naz@BecomingMe
7. Tara @ Feels like Home
8. Hadley
9. <
a href="http://mutheringheights.blogspot.com/2009/02/100-things-i-love-about-my-husband.html" target="_blank">Muthering Heights
10. Carol @SheLives
11. Upstatemomof3
12. D…My Life Is Based On a True Story
13. Normal to Natalie
14. Mayangelstar
15. Nise\’
16. Kelly@Kelly\’s Krazy Kids
17. Jesica (At least we can laugh…)
18. Heidi (How I Spell S.E.X.Y)
19. Wilma (part 1)
20. Heather
21. Amy
22. Gwyn
23. Natalie–He Had Me at His Hair
24. Franticallysimple
25. Dawn @ PSHelovesyou
26. Edie @ lifeingrace
27. Don\’t Start None…There Won\’t be None
28. Comfort Joy Designs
29. Lisa @ Stop and Smell the Chocolates
30. Jenny & The Irishman
31. Tanya (In the Dailies)
32. Proud Mommy
33. Sandra (past first impressions)
34. Sarah @ Short Stop (The Moment I Knew)
35. Alicia (from StuCo to Subs)
36. KLee (what\’s your real name?)
37. Andrea
38. Amber@theRunaMuck
39. Kristin @ StrivingToBeMore
40. Alicia @ CrazySubmarineLady (His Valentine\’s Day Date)
41. Laura
42. BooksnBoys (unashamedly bragging)
43. Nikki
44. Cheryl
45. Janice
46. Mommie Daze – One Look
47. Thoughts By Kim
48. Lynn @ Rohal Call
49. Jen – 10 Years & 100 Reasons
50. Mrs. Nurse Boy
51. Jenn
52. Christy
53. Jenny 867-5309
54. Colleen – Mommy Always Wins
55. Kiy @ RC&T;
56. Kimberly Kovach
57. Becky Jo
58. TV Watching Mama
59. The Porch Swing
60. Kaycee(my truck guy)
61. Andrea @Under Grace & Over Coffee – Still Twitterpated
62. The Happy Houswife ~ Opposites Attract?
63. Mishababy
64. Amy
65. Krista @ The Little Things
66. Jerri Ann
67. IE Mommy
68. Robin
69. Tidymom
70. Runningamuck
71. Rita
72. Emily O.
73. MyLinda
74. rachel@justanotherdayinparadise
75. Amanda – Garibay Soup
76. Heather @ Sugar \’N Spice & Mostly Nice
77. Christy Klein
78. Jessica Dietzel
79. Kyleigh
80. Christin
81. Bubba\’s Sis
82. Wani
83. Vanderbilt Wife
84. the Animator\’s Wife
85. Debby @ Bringing up boys
86. Rachel
87. Leanne – My Man
88. Cathy (Love of my Life – Sometimes)
89. Monica @ Daily Dwelling
90. april
91. Lisa @ Cheerios Underfoot
92. Tasha @ Hectic Calm
93. Audrey
94. Grateful for Grace
95. Amber @ Classic Housewife
96. The Miss Elaine-ous Life
97. Sarah @ Prayerful Driven Life
98. Such The Spot {Darcie}
99. Lisa @ The Berry Patch
100. Gwyn
101. Poppyseed@Sugar \’n Spice
102. Wilma PART 2
103. Crayl (Aaron)
104. Cheri @ What is it Now
105. Lori @ Building our nest
106. Kama
107. Kat @ Daredevil Parenting
108. Sparkette
109. Lois Lane II
110. Heather @ Drivel and Whatnot
111. Paper Glue Etc.
112. Jen
113. Paula
114. Dawn@PSHelovesyou (Love can be painful..)
115. Charity@Four Now
116. JA@Gravity of Motion
117. Muthering Heights
118. Catherine
119. Modern Mama Diana
120. Nimmi
121. Superjaxster @ Blogging Jax
122. If Only I Had Super Powers
123. Mr. Nurse Boy…A letter to my wife
124. Sarah @ Short Stop (The Sounds of Love)
125. Melissa Griffin
126. Jenna @ Newlyweds
127. Kim @ Situationally Single
128. Happy Mamma
129. Greta
130. Jenny & The Irishman (Part 2)
131. Allison@Slice of Heaven
132. Sandy@Tales From A Shop*a*holic Mommy
133. Wilma ~Conclusion
134. Jennielynn
135. Julie from Inmates
136. purple moose
137. Dawn@PSHelovesyou (Love is juicy)
138. Tammy @ Creative Domesticity
139. Sarah Mae
140. Christy
141. Heathahlee (better late than never, right?)
142. Laura @ Decor to Adore
143
. { jamie }
144. Dana @ Composing Hallelujahs
145. Gin
146. Patti
147. Kris @ Sandhill Serendipity
148. Heather @ Want What You Have (My Great Love Story)
149. Natalie
150. Tabitha\’s love story
151. Traci @ Milk & Honey
152. Tater @ Life of a Tater
153. Tara @ Feels like Home (original link broke)
154. Regina

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S.W.A.K. Carnival {Door Prize Preview}

{Please read this post to the end so you can find out how to get an extra chance to win one of the following awesome giveaways}
Well.
The kissing is going well.
Ahem.
That’s about all you’ll get from me.
My lips are sealed.
I’m so excited about the S.W.A.K. Carnival that starts tomorrow (Wednesday) . Don’t forget to get your post ready to link up. There aren’t many rules. It just needs to honor your hubby in honor of Valentine’s Day.
You can add the button if you’d like to your post. Please link back to my blog so your readers can participate. You don’t have to have a blog to participate, you can share in the comment section:

Please take a minute today and go visit these sites (you’ll be glad you did…keep reading). I appreciate the generosity of these businesses/people and in return, I’d love for them to get a lot of new visitors! (U.S. Shipping is included for all winners).

With A Southern Flair-2 Monogrammed “His” & “Hers”
Hand towels (Value $20)
With A Southern Flair

From *Me Tees-Matching His/Hers
“My husband/wife Rocks” t-shirts (Value $42)

my husband rocks frommetees

Bid My Cleaning- $200 gift certificate for house,
carpet cleaning
BidMyCleaning.com - Your online marketplace for cleaning services
Sorme Lip Gloss-sponsored by PS He Loves You
(Value $10)
Sheila Wray Gregoire-author and speaker,
marriage audio downloads, “Honey I don’t have a headache: Help for women who want to feel more in the mood” 45 min. (value $10 each) 2 copies
Pampering Beki- a beautiful hand-stamped silver ‘Love’ necklace (Value $23)

$20 gift certificate to a great Etsy store, Sarah’s Blue Castle! Check out her fun items.
A Pair of Chic Bud Earphones with Swarovski crystals in a collectible tin (Value $45) Donated by The f="http://www.iemommy.wordpress.com/">IE Mommy
4 Reluctant Entertainers is donating a copy of the book she co-authored “Married, but Not Engaged”. You can read more here.


A beautiful Vintage Valentine Corsage from etsy store Decor To Adore.
(Value $14)

Here are a few more door prizes that were donated locally:

Heart Keepsake Box-Things Remembered (Value $25)
14k gold Heart earrings (Value $25); An Adorable Tote Bag-(Value $20)
Ring Watch by Jenni (Value $42), Ring Lipstick by Jenni (Value $22)
The best-selling book “The Love Dare” from the Fireproof movie (Value $15)
Awesome marriage book “Better Love Now! Making your Marriage a Lifelong Love Affair (Value $20)
And I’m very happy to announce that the S.W.A.K Carnival is being sponsored by The Date Night Planner. This is a very helpful tool to help you plan a fantastic date night with your sweetheart! Go try it!

Quickly plan your activities including:

    Dine Out: Choose a restaurant and make reservations
    Dine In: Add recipes and put together the perfect menu
    See a Movie: Get movie listings, local show times and buy tickets
    See a Show: Find concerts and events in your area
    Buy a Gift: Special occasion? Surprise your date with a present.
    Other Activities: Take a walk on the beach or go to a museum, quickly add any idea to the date planner.
    Click here for more.


Details:
The carnival will go live with Mr. Linky after 10 p.m. CST Tuesday night. This is your opportunity to link up a post honoring your hubby (however you interpret that). You will be eligible for the door prizes above by linking up.

The carnival continues on Thursday and Friday with some inspiring and informative posts on marriage. Door prizes will be given away on these days also. You are eligible for them, by simply leaving a comment. All winners will be announced on Valentine’s Day.

So, you have a chance to win by either linking up (late Tuesday) Wednesday or leaving a comment on Thursday or Friday’s post.

But you can earn an extra chance TODAY by visiting the door prizes above before the carnival begins. Please visit the stores and leave a comment and you’ll get an extra door prize entry.

Kristen
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Don’t Forget: {S.W.A.K}

It’s coming this week! Get your posts ready to link and come back tomorrow for the details on the door prizes!

Kristen
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Who Needs a Comfort Zone: Blissdom

I did it, y’all!

I packed my bags, boarded a tiny airplane (about the size of a Hot Wheels vehicle), steered clear of engine-loving geese and landed in Nashville for Blissdom.

My comfort zone was but a memory.
Now, I’ll be the first to tell you, it was hard.

And probably one of the most difficult social situations I’ve endured.
And I had some awkward moments, like having to stop for band-aids before I even registered for the conference and then having to return for my wallet.

Um, yeah. I carry all that class with me.

It’s a heavy burden.


But I was determined not to be THAT family among 300 bloggers.

I’ll admit that immediately after I walked into the conference, I turned around and dashed back to my room where I gave myself an excellent pep talk.

I’m glad I did because I learned so much. My brain is completely full. I can only mumble short sentences now. I’m really hoping that wears off soon.
Even more amazing than all the blogging info, was meeting so many other bloggers.
It was the highlight of Blissdom (well, besides the kiddie portion of chocolate chip pancakes I ordered from Room Service).
One word describes the experience: surreal.
There were a few rock star moments. I took this picture for my son, who thinks Rocks in My Dryer is a real rock star:

I respect Shannon so much and I see her as a mentor. And let me tell y’all, she is more lovely in person than on her amazing blog! So, yes, son, she is a real star!
I met dozens and dozens of others (I wish I had time to link to you all, but I’m afraid I’d leave some out).

It was very humbling when other bloggers sought me out and said they wanted to meet me because they saw me as their mentor.

Oh. My. Nothing makes you want to blog your best more than that. It was fabulous to chat with some of my readers and put names with faces.

Blissdom was a classy, fast-paced, well-planned blogging conference with awesome hosts. I was very impressed and hope to meet you the next time I leave my comfort zone!

Will you be there?
I feel like I grew as a blogger and as a person this weekend. Stretching to a point of discomfort is hard, but it’s good.

Plus, I only peed my pants once.

So, if there’s something you’ve always wanted to do, (attend a blogging conference, start a blog, write a book, parachute from a plane) give it a try! Except for the parachuting thing. Think that one through.
Because really, who needs a comfort zone?


Kristen
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That Family Tree Society-Issue 29

The Week in Review: I’m at Blissdom right now, so I spent most of the week getting ready to spend the weekend pretending that I wear heels with jeans all the time. Hopefully, I’ll have some fun pictures and details when I get home tonight. I meant to tell y’all last week, that our family went to a Go Fish concert. If you have children 10 years of age and younger, you would love this Christian group. Their motto is “Great music for kids that won’t drive parents bonkers!”

Picture of the Week:

Our toddler loved it!

Introduction into The Society: Let’s give a twisted branch welcome to Heidi of Sacred and Profane! Anyone who publicly admits to letting her children lick the windows at McDonald’s, belongs here. She’s among friends.

1.  Tell us a little about your blog (name/reason why you blog):

I used to blog way back in the day when you’d say “I have a blog”  and people would say “Bless you.  Are you on meds for it?”  Life took a crazy turn down the path of chaos and I let blogging go.  It was actually a fond farewell, because I was tired of it, and it was tired of me.   I’ve recently started back up again, and realized how much I missed it.  I missed writing and blogging and pretending to have an audience of people that find me pithy and poignant.  Even if I am a bit delusional.  My blog is me.  It’s a mix of things, really – my kids, pictures, stories, funny things, things I’m passionate about, recipes…it’s a melting pot of thoughts.  Oooh..THAT would’ve been a good blog name!  Hmph.  Anyway, it’s called Sacred & Profane because that is what I write about – the things that are Sacred and the things that are Profane, to me.   
2.  How long have you blogging? 
Oh, um….I answered this question already in the first post.  I get an award for “doesn’t follow instructions.”     
3.  How would you define THAT family?  
They’re the ones at the restaurant that everyone is staring at and whispering about.  “Can you BELIEVE she let her kid eat ice cream before her meal??”  “Is she really gonna let that kid eat boogers as a main course??”   
4.  When did you discover you were a part of THAT family?  
I grew up being part of that family.   When I met my husband’s family, I realized they were even more THAT family…they were That Family x 10.  I’m the mom with no sanitizing wipes in her diaper bag.  I’m the mom who doesn’t care that her son is licking the windows at McDonalds.   I’m the mom that tells her girls to pull up their big girl panties and move along.      
5.  Where can we find your blog?


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Watching Faith Grow

We got a phone call the other day.
The dreaded kind.
The family member asked us to pray for our nephew who was facing a frightening diagnosis after some very disturbing tests.
I hesitated telling my kids about their cousin. I knew they would have questions I couldn’t answer.
But I also wanted to give them the opportunity to pray.
Because my fourteen year old nephew needed it………….
Click here to read more.
Kristen
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DIYP #33 Customizing {Lamps} with Stencils

I love this lamp I found at Target. At first glance, it looks like an average light.
Until you turn it on:
The lovely damask pattern comes to life in the light. I love the way it coordinates with my damask bedding.
This lampshade really inspired me to customize this lamp (another clearance aisle special from Tar-jay) in my favorite new corner of the house.
The first house my hubby and I lived in a million years ago benefitted from my stencil-happy hands. I think I stenciled every room in the house! I haven’t stenciled in awhile and thought it would give this lamp a neat touch. It’s such a cheap and easy way to customize.
I taped the stencil to the inside of the lamp. And added black acrylic paint.
I love the simple elegant touch this added!
I couldn’t decide if I should do the whole lampshade. What do you think?
For more lovely lamp stories, visit The Nester’s Lampalooza! 


Kristen
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Riddle Me

I have a riddle for you:

What do you call a man who entertains his toddler with her blankie in his back pocket for safe-keeping, while you shop in an all-girl store with your 9 year old who wants to spend her birthday money on a fancee dress like the one you bought for Blissdom this weekend?
Answer: Just plain ol’ sexy.
P.S. I’ll be on my way to Nashville very soon. Does this outfit make my butt look nervous? 
You can follow my social anxiety on Twitter.

Kristen
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Scary Cindy {Sincerely ‘Fro Me to You}

My now nine year old daughter has always had a thing for Cinderella.
Let’s just call her Cindy, okay? Because we’re like this (crossing fingers to indicate closeness).
I shared this photo last year of their first meeting:

2002, 2 years old
It made me weep. It was my hubby’s first Disney encounter and I promise I saw a tear in his eye too. He even whispered in my ear, “Maybe she is real.”
He wasn’t kidding.
So, Cindy goes way back with our family.

She came to my daughter’s third birthday party.

She proposed to my son.

She pretty much ruined the chances for the “other” princess’:

She convinced Santa to deliver this costume on Christmas morning:

I like to refer to this picture as “Scary Cindy.”
The look on her face is, well, scary.
And just think: I have another daughter, recently turned two, with her first princess light-up shoes. It’s like a nightmare, only with pixie dust.
{Just a reminder: The ‘Fro will be replaced next week with the S.W.A.K. Carnival}
Kristen
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