DIFOP-Mothers Give Back to NICUS

By far, one of the most challenging and emotionally barren seasons of my life was giving birth to my premature daughter. My third baby spent three weeks in the NICU (neo natal intensive care unit) and it was a roller coaster with high highs and low lows.
Every Christmas we return to remember and honor the people who saved our daughter’s life. We also empathize with the exhausted, new parents on their long and frightening NICU journey.

In honor of Mother’s Day and our new Do-It-For-Others project, I am pleased to introduce you to a brand new organization, Hailey’s Hope, born out of a grief most of us will never know. Kristin, Hailey’s mom, lost her precious daughter in January this year when she was just 36 days old. She has turned her sorrow into a beautiful testimony and ministry in her baby’s honor by blessing other NICU families with special gift bags.

The gift bags for NICU parents provide a gentle touch of comfort during a difficult time.
What we are collecting to add to gift bags (ITEMS MUST BE NEW):
  • Stuffed animals, stuffed rattles, stuffed animals w/small blankies attached
  • Preemie clothes-boy, girl and unisex (most Dept. stores carry preemie clothes, including WalMart)
Please let me know BY COMMENTING if you think your family can send an item!
Some of you can send a lot, some only a little. Please consider sending something (I will collect the items the month of May and send one large box to Hailey’s Hope).
We are THAT family
8000 Research Forest Dr. Ste. 115-110
Spring, TX 77382

Deadline for this project is June 1st. If you can participate, I have a treat for you, please visit my community for a chance to win something special for yourself or Mom on Mother’s Day!


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    I think a few baby blankets would be okay, but since that's a popular item, we aren't specifically collecting those.

    You can get preemie clothes at WalMart, Babies R Us, and most dept stores.

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    I would love to help. My youngest spent only a day in the NICU, but it was tough – and the love that is showered on those babies and their families is wonderful!

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    Count our family in, as well. My oldest son, Ben, spent almost 3 weeks in NICU after he was born via emergency c-section at 35 weeks. I don't know how I would have gotten through it without the one nurse in that unit. She took care of me almost as much as my baby.

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    I can send something. Walmart has alot of the sleepers and outfits on clearance right now, and at least here, most of the leftovers are preemie sized. I've already bought for two different baby showers, and I love the excuse of being able to shop for baby stuff again! :)

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    My girls were in there for a month and a half so I understand. It's nice to know that people are there to support you and lend a loving hand. Our NICU had a group of grandmothers called "Touch of the Heart." They nitted hats, made blankets, and made the little snakes that cuddled around the preemies. I can't wait to send something to help out.

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    Mia was in there for her first week of life, and even though it wasn't anything life threatening, it still had highs and lows. I will definately send something out next week! I'm not sure what yet, probably whatever I can find that's on that list! 😀

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    You know the NICU is close to out hearts. J spent 51 days there…and those nurses helped me everyday…not only with my tiny baby, but navigating through all of the tears of my mom's cancer diagnosis and chemo going on at the same time.

    Count us in.

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    What a beautiful thing!!! I wish you would have been around when my daughter was in the NICU! She was born 12 weeks early, and stayed in the NICU for 67 days!! Something like this would have been a true comfort!! We go back every year around her birthday to give back at Memorial Hermann Children's Hospital!!

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    i will plan to shop for an outfit. i lost 1 pregnancy to miscarriage, and have several friends who have lost full-term babies during or shortly after delivery in the NICU. i will be shopping for preemie items.

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    Christina says

    Thank you for being so thoughtful and such an example of what it means to give. We would love to send some clothes and a cuddly toy.

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    Thanks for sharing about Hailey's Hope Kristen and making it your DIFOP for the month of May! I am so moved and encouraged by you and your readers already! Blessings to you and everyone else for helping take part in this special project!

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    Not sure why my first comment did not show up. I will be sending something. Thanks for the opportunity to participate in this. I did not have a NICU baby but I did lose a little guy due to pre-term labor. Anything I can do to help families with littles ones I consider a blessing.

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    I haven't gone shopping yet, but I will send something for this very touching cause! I was a preemie myself many years ago!

    allibrary (at) aol (dot) com

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    Count us in! I just now saw this post. You posted it while I was on my prison mission trip and I totally missed it.

    My daughter was born 12 weeks early and spent 56 days in the NICU.

    I will be passing this post on to the preemie support group that I am the leader of. Some of the mommies on that board may be interested.

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