Let’s Talk About My Tattoo

I typed in we are that….into Google the other day, trying to bring up a prompt to my blog so I could check something while I was out of town.

Before I could type the word family, Google prompted me with a few suggestions that had been googled, a lot. I laughed at number one.

It was we are that family tattoo.

I’ve only written about it once and I closed comments because I’m a good girl and I didn’t want to open a can of worms. Here I am ten months post-tattoo and I’m still so happy I did it. I haven’t once doubted or regretted my decision. I do get a lot of email and questions about it, so I thought I’d just be open that can right up. Worms aren’t all that bad. Plus, I think my in-laws know about it now.

Here’s what I tell people: Don’t get a tattoo if you have doubts. And emailing me is probably proof of doubt. Don’t get a tattoo of just anything. So many people have written of their regret because their little turtle or butterfly tattoo has no significance. So don’t get one just because you think they are cool. It’s something you’ve got to know you want forever.

It will probably sound weird, but when my husband and I got our tattoo together on the two year anniversary of starting Mercy House, it was deeply significant and spiritual. I have no regrets!

But I will also never ever get another one. And not just because it hurt like a big dog.

I never intended to be branded by the Spirit in such a deep, life-changing way. I never intended to have a tattoo either. Some things are just unexpected and right for some people.

I think on the 3rd anniversary of my life-changing trip, I’ll get my nose pierced.

Just kidding, Mom.

So, would you ever get inked?

Want to see my husband’s tattoo? click here

A Marriage Recycled

I’ve never been a good recycler. I aim high with my recycle bins and fabric grocery totes, but since I’m usually multi-tasking and running behind, I generally remember to recycle after the fact.

It’s just not my ministry. Ya know?

But I love recycled things. Go figure. I’m glad someone is responding to the high calling. I love love love trash to treasure stories.  From Mercy House to my marriage, I’ve learned to view God as the ultimate recycler. He is the master of taking rubbish and redeeming it.

This month my husband and I are celebrating 18 years of marriage. I’ve written about our testimony and I’m so thankful He transformed the garbage of our lives into something for His glory. Our marriage isn’t perfect, but it’s evidence of God’s hand.

One of the things I love most about recycling? You get something new. There’s still a trace of the old, but when it goes through the fire, something different, often better is created. After God recycled our marriage, 7 years ago now, we took my engagement ring, wedding band and an anniversary band and had them melted down. The three pieces were beautiful and I loved them, but we both wanted a new ring to represent our new marriage. But my original set was very special and we wanted to keep it.

A local jeweler crafted one new gorgeous ring from the materials of my 3 separate rings. It was the same, but completely different, better, just like my marriage. And that’s exactly what God is able to do in your marriage too.

When my friends over at Union28 sent us their new new shirts, I smiled. I love knowing after all these years my marriage STILL rocks; It’s getting better with age because God is the ultimate recycler.

Want to see my new (old) ring, click here.

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WFMW: 10 Affordable Gifts for Teen Girls Under $19

I’m about to have a teenager.

Seriously, y’all. We are weeks away from a 13 year old in the house.

How did I get this old?

Last weekend she went to her first teenager sleepover party at her best friend’s house. They did crazy makeovers, stayed up half the night singing and dancing, you name it. Ready or not, here it comes.

If you’re like me, you might be looking for fun and meaningful gifts for a teen girl in your life. We are sticking to our three gift rule again this year, but Santa needs ideas for stocking stuffers, so I thought I’d share my top ten list:

  1. LemonHead: Get a grip on your hair. I bought my daughter one of these headbands at a craft show and it’s her absolute favorite one. The no-slip ribbon headbands come in hundreds of styles and colors are are super cute.
  2. Cute JOYN Geometric Block Printed Clutch – Green for $19 and stylish fabric bracelets and necklaces (fair trade group that rescues women in India) on clearance right now! I love Joyn and have one of their bags and I’m giving my sister one for her birthday. I love shopping fair trade.
  3. A Charm for a bracelet or necklace. We are adding one charm at a time to a silver bracelet we are giving our daughter)
  4. Urban Soul BE JOYFUL Photo Holder
  5. Fair Trade alpaca cable knit fingerless gloves  My daughter is very aware of things made in other countries and one of the first things she asks is “Is this fair trade?” It just takes a few conversations to make our kids aware. We can’t/don’t buy everything fair trade, but we are trying to be conscience consumers.
  6. EOS lip balm-according to my daughter, you can never have too much lip gloss. 
  7. Beautiful plaque: Love from the Center of Who You Are. I love to give inspirational gifts that build up a teen girls self esteem.
  8. A Mustache cowl scarf  
  9. iTunes gift card–always a safe bet with music-loving teens!
  10. Gorgeous fair trade journal-I love it when I see my girl jotting down her thoughts and writing me little notes. 

Is there a tween boy in your life? I have a delightful one. I loved the ideas on this gift list. {There are a few affiliate links in this post}

What works for you?



Sing Like Never Before {Giveaway}

Congrats to the following winners: comment #207 Hannah, #211 Robyn, #200 Linnea, #63  Niki  and grand prize winner #138 Vicki

I grew up sandwiched between two singers. My sister and brother were in choirs and had voice lessons and were definitely gifted in that area.

And then there was me.

Tone deaf.

I don’t sing in the shower or have a massive music collection, but some music makes me forget that some people aren’t supposed to sing (out loud). Matt Redman’s new CD is one of those for me. I feel the worship songs all the way to my toes!

Today I’m giving away his new CD Sing Like Never Before to 4 people and one grand prize winner will get the album, plus his four other albums:

 10,000 Reasons

We Shall Not Be Shaken

Beautiful News

Facedown

Listen and tell me you don’t feel like singing too.

Leave a comment as your entry. This giveaway ends on Thursday.

Don’t Play in the Sprinklers and Other Truths

We all make mistakes. I think it’s good to learn from them. This impromptu shot was not one of them.
 Here’s what I learned last week:

  1. (Truth #1) When you’re in a hurry and you pull out the big roaster pan to slow bake a giant pork butt, potatoes and carrots, you should check the pan to make sure it’s clean before throwing the full pan in the oven (see Truth #5).
  2. When you move into a house with a septic system, you should schedule an orientation right away (Truth #2). Because if you do all your laundry in one day for a family of five, you’ll overload the system which proves to be stinky (Truth #3). Oh and make sure your kids don’t play in the sprinklers! The water is um, recycled (Truth #4). Welcome to the country.
  3. Remember that roaster pan? (Truth #1) Everyone piled around the table for dinner and our Advent devotional and we ate delicious pot roast and start talking highs and lows of the day. About that time, we discovered a very large, slow-baked cricket that ended up on my husband’s plate, under a yam. He got an extra serving of protein and a new low for the day. (Truth #5) Dinner was over VERY quickly and nobody wanted to save leftovers.
  4. When you drop your kids off for midweek youth group after a dinner nightmare and sneak off to Starbucks for a quick date with your hubby, the church will call 15 minutes later to say your son is being seen by a medic for a head injury. (Truth #6)
  5. And with a staple to his head gash, you learn that’s why it’s never funny for kids to pull someone’s chair out from underneath them. (Truth #7)
  6. We should have made more of these people. (Truth #8)

 2012 Christmas card photo:

photos by my friend, Suzanne Box Photography