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WFMW: The God of Second Chances

July 15, 2014 by Kristen

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I’m happy to welcome this week’s guest post from Lindsey for my Wednesday series Yes, Works For Me! Please welcome her and be encouraged by her yes to God and continue to link up what works for you.

I’m going to let you in on a little secret…

I was not a good mother. Not for a very long time.

Thankfully, He is a God of second chances.

My second chance started on a rainy, gloomy day. My three-year-old son was sitting in time-out for the fourteenth time…and it was only 9:30am. The house was a mess, breakfast was burnt and I hadn’t taken a shower or changed out of pajamas in days.

As hopeless tears started to fall, I decided to cope with my obvious failures by hiding in my dark closet.

It was day 61 of my being a “stay-at-home” mom.

I had been a career girl. I LOVED my job and the validation it brought me. My work reviews were fantastic and I was well liked. By outward appearances I was successful, happy and fulfilled.

The truth was far from that.

I had neglected my marriage and my children for years. Adultery had also led to the implosion of my marriage, a fact that demanded immediate action before I lost everything. So I left that career and walked into the unknown feeling lost, terrified and stripped of my identity. Those feelings grew as the days passed and I fumbled through trying to knit my marriage and life back together.

In that closet I started whispering a small prayer full of hesitant words to a God I barely knew.

I asked for a second chance, for a sign that He was here in the midst of my painful path of obedience.

I asked for a renewed relationship with my children.

I asked for the undeserved gift of many firsts to come to replace all the ones I had missed.

Almost immediately a sliver of light shone promise across my face, as my son peeked into the closet and said “Mommy? Can I come in?” I nodded my head yes and he sat in my lap, talking about the red fire truck he held in his hand. Sharing how it was his favorite toy and showing me all the cool sounds.

As he rambled on with excitement, it hit me.

This was my first conversation with my son that did not involve me yelling at him to be quiet, to obey, or to go away.

Tears started falling again, only this time they were full of joy. God was already giving me a second chance — my first “first” — simply because I had asked.

I’m going to let you in on another little secret…

I am a good mother. And have been for a very long time.

While my path has been filled with bad decisions and sorrowful mistakes, I am confident that I am now an equipped mother loved by a glorious God and am reminded of His love to me every time a new “first” occurs.

My prayer for you is to remember God’s presence in YOUR mess.

He is the God of second chances. And He is waiting to give you yours.

 

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LH Bio Pic.jpgLindsey believes God-inspired words have the power to bring hope and healing to a broken world. She spends her days loving her family, listening to classical music, pretending to clean, writing to God and helping authors create and share life-changing messages.

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  1. Janine says

    July 15, 2014 at 9:57 pm

    What a wonderful message from Lindsey. Thank you for hosting this week. I posted a few yummy recipes. See you next week

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  2. Jillian Hudson says

    July 15, 2014 at 10:12 pm

    Thanks for hosting! I’m sharing my ice cream birthday cake which is a great alternative to a traditional birthday cake—no apologies needed for being allergy-friendly. I’m also sharing my update to coconut milk ice cream— vanilla custard ice cream that’s rich and creamy and SCOOPABLE.

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  3. Paula says

    July 15, 2014 at 11:37 pm

    Kristen, thanks for sharing Lindsey’s testimony. That was such an amazing message. I would love for you to share this at our linky party. This will inspire so many women. Thank you!

    Paula
    ivyandelephants.blogspot.com

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  4. Renee@Doorkeeper says

    July 16, 2014 at 5:31 am

    Thanks for making yourself vulnerable to share this powerful testimony, Lindsey. I pray that many are strengthened by it! I enjoyed working with you on the Atlas Girl blog tour. Blessings!

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  5. Leslie says

    July 16, 2014 at 9:36 pm

    Thank you for sharing this. I’m not regularly a stay-at-home mother, but I was recently laid off so I have been with my kids almost non-stop since June 1st. The 5 year old is not so bad. The 3 yo is a different story. And to think, God has blessed me with a 3rd to be born in December. I wonder how on earth I will ever handle all 3… I pray each day that I can go without yelling or spanking. Thank you for reminding me that tomorrow I can have a second chance.

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