I’m an average mom. I yell too much and don’t listen enough. I mess up. Daily.
My kids are normal too. They can be delightful one minute and talking back or writhing on the floor in a tantrum the very next.
[If you can’t relate to the above confessions, you are probably above average and might want to skip this post.]
And we probably don’t love each other any more than you and your kids.
But, that doesn’t mean I’m not going to brag. (See first sentence about being an average mom: I can’t help myself).
Because this is the happy face of a Mom who hasn’t seen her kids in 10 days (or had a shower in 30+ hours):
Returning from Africa was a celebration!
We did it: my family (with the help of grandparents and friends) championed the cause without complaint and only offered me unconditional love and support while I was away. I couldn’t have done it without them.
Life is full of ups and downs. The good and bad mark our journeys. But it’s the celebrations we remember. Whether it’s overcoming fear (my first Goodnites post) or celebrating victories, we are in this together.
Speaking of celebrations, someone will be rejoicing with a $2500 victory by winning the Bedtime Theater Writing Contest! Just submit your 275 word chapter and it could be you!
Oh, and a lucky reader, will have cause to celebrate when they win what I’m giving away TODAY:
- 2GB Silver iPod Shuffle
- Logitech Speakers
- $25 iTunes Gift Card
- Brookstone Cuddle Blanket
- Patagonia Bag
A prize package worth approximately $175!!!!!!
To enter, please leave a comment that might help a child overcome adversity (like “have faith”, “don’t give up!’ etc) Who knows, you might even come up with an idea for the next chapter in Iggy’s Great Adventure at the Bedtime Theater.
Jennifer says
With God all things are possible…. a favorite here.
Jenn says
FROG!! (Fully Rely On God)
Jason and Sandi Rodriguez says
The best way to make your dreams come true is to wake up and take action.
Linda says
Believe in yourself! Always a winner in my family.
Denise says
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord. Plans to prosper & not harm you, to give you a hope and a future. Jer 29:11
A promise to me during a time of great adversity.
brudcrew says
When you remember that you are God's child, of infinite worth, and that he loves you more than your finite mind can comprehend, what other people think doesn't matter so much.
mandiegirl says
Don't give up- seriously and really- DON'T!
Megan says
We always told our child who had issues here that she wasn't alone, this is how God created her, we didn't love her any less because of it, and she would get through it.
Eventually she did.
ilovemy5kids says
Yeah! You did it!!! You are going to change the world! 🙂
Kate says
No winter lasts forever; no spring skips its turn.
Ivy says
You can do this. I know it seems tough right now, but we're so proud of you for making this effort.
Angela says
Oh man so many things I could say here.
Never ever give up. Just keep trying.
Angela @ HomegrownMom says
Do the next thing 🙂 Helps me!
Harley Mom says
YES, YOU CAN!! I will have a good attitude no matter what!
a little bit of everything says
Persevere – you can be anything you want to be !
Malia says
There's only one you, so be the best you that you can possibly be!
panykattack says
Help others. You'd be amazed at how it helps you at the same time!
Theresa says
It’s not what happens to you that matters, but how you react to it. That's what is important.
Jen says
When you're down to nothing, God's up to something.
Mary says
Never let the fear of striking out keep you from swinging
Stacy Bennett says
Let go and Let God!
Katy says
You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. –Christopher Robin to Pooh
Gretchen Magruder says
Remember who you are.
Remember where you're going.
Remember who you belong to!
Bev says
Don't worry! God loves you more than you love your dog!
Cheery wave from
Bev
Laurie says
We always have a direct line to God. Unlike the phone calls to friends and family….God is never busy, He is always there, and will always answer!
Andrea says
you "can do all things through Christ who strengthens" you!! Phillipians 4:13
Miss Allie says
There are millions of types of love in the world and millions of types of people, God made it that way because there are million different things we can love about each other and it's guaranteed we've all got at least one of those one in a million things about us.
Southern Gal says
You can do anything through Christ.
Whitney says
I love you!
rachelizabeth says
You won't hit the ball if you don't swing the bat!
Melanie says
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!
Annika says
I believe in you.
Rich Angie says
Don't give up…give it to God!
Anonymous says
You are awesome because YOU are YOU!!
Lori
loriche4@yahoo.com
Homemade Mom says
Everything happens for a reason!
Anonymous says
As my grandma always reminded me when things seemed too tough:
"THIS TOO SHALL PASS!"
Thanks for the entry.
Rachel
coupongrabber (AT) hotmail (DOT) com
Ang says
God will never give you more than you can handle..
justanarmywife09(at)gmail(dot)com
The Perfect Trio says
Do your best work!
We say a lot of encouraging things but, that one sticks out the most.
Jakemelissajakea@aol.com
blessdtwice says
Everything that everyone else has posted is great…I guess the only thing I can add is this…When my kids get frustrated, I tell them to calm down, take a deep breath…and take it one step at a time. Just do one step. Just one. When that step is done, then we'll do another. Then another, and another….And eventually- we'll get there.
Sometimes my (average) kids get overwelmed at the BIGNESS of the task they are facing. Breaking it down into small steps helps them.
(I know, cause its what I have to say to myself sometimes!!)
Kayren, Pink Daisy Girl says
I always seem to be telling my three oldest kids not to complain about the fears the youngest one has that they didn't, that he'll grow out of it. We can leave the house now without him having to go with us everywhere, he sleeps in his own bed and not on the floor outside his sister's room (although someone reads to him until he falls asleep)…stuff like that. But I don't freak out about it and I tell them not to and so far it's working (should I tell you he's already 10?).
Kim says
Someone once told me…"Your failures aren't fatal!" Wow, did I need to hear that and so does my Precious.
JaimeJenn says
Don’t let what you can’t do stop you from doing what you can do!
Christy says
Jesus is the answer! He loves you more than I do!
--Amie-- says
ALWAYS shoot for the moon,even if you miss you're still among the stars! My HS health teacher had that saying in his classroom and 13 years later it is still inspiration to me!! No matter if you dont do the best, you are still a star for trying!
Shoofly Mama says
Like my Ma-maw always said, "You're bot pretty when you're ugly!".
3 generations later andy children are hearing it from me.
Cherie says
First – ask God for help! He is there for you and understands what you are going through.
Second – Just take it day by day, minute by minute and do the best you can!
TheDorothyFamily says
"YOU CAN DO IT, I KNOW YOU CAN!" 🙂
Julie says
Hardships in life allow us to empathize with others.
Love covers a multitude of sins.
jenlar3 says
When tasked with 'un-fun' things, I always reminded my daughter it would be easier to finish if she did it with "a smile on her face and a song in her heart."
Christy says
Never say never…. because anything is possible.
Melissa G. says
There is a star in the sky for every child on Earth. When people look up at night, they don’t see the star that’s the lightest shade of blue, nor the one that twinkles a little brighter than the one next to it. They simply see Heaven. You are unique, just like every one of those stars. When I look at you, I don’t see someone who’s different– I see a little piece of Heaven on Earth. You are special. You are a blessing.
Lori says
Awesome giveaway! I talk to my daughter about being like a duck. Things just roll right off their backs, and I hope that she can be like that a bit too when little annoyances or issues with friends come up. 🙂 Thanks!
The Mildner Family says
Be a P.I.G. Perseverance, Integrity, and Guts. Kristen!
Life Happens says
God doesn't give you more than you can handle, he helps you handle what you are given. :0)
Evonne97(at)comcast(dot)net
nault's nook says
Don't let your circumstance determine your destination! Keep going, eventually you'll get there!
Dawn says
"They" can only make you feel bad if you LET them make you feel bad!!!
Maren says
God never gives you more than you can handle.
Maryann @ Domestically-Speaking says
Love… With God All Things Are Possible!
Lara says
You might just discover you're the hero you've been searching for, find your inner hero, love yourself, and be proud to represent who YOU are!
melonbelly says
BE the change that is so desperately needed!
http://www.melonbelly.blogspot.com
Ann Voskamp @Holy Experience says
P.U.S.H.
(Pray. Until. Something. Happens.)
(I loved this post, Kristen! You are an amazing daughter of the Father, hard after the heart of Jesus….)
All, all my love,
Ann
emily says
now to Him Who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us…. eph 3:20
Keana C. says
Instead of giving up or walking away from a challenge find a way to work around it or through it. Believing in yourself makes you ten times more stronger then being a skeptic.
Heather says
God loves you and He is ALWAYS with you!
Gigi says
Mommy and Daddy love you NO MATTER WHAT!
Heather says
"…rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; 4perseverance, character; and character, hope. 5And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit…"
Romans 5:3-5
Rachael says
Trust in the Lord with All your heart…Proverbs 3:5-6
tyler_rachael at sbcglobal dot net
Jenna says
Keep Moving Foward!
cartersmommie@gmail.com
Anonymous says
Everyone makes mistakes and so can you!
missmlis at msn dot com
Laura says
"Just keep swimming…"
Beana says
It took a lot of failures before Thomas Edison invented the lightbulb.
TanuvasaCasa says
Never forget that God thinks you're AMAZING!
Cathy says
Nothings impossible with GOD!!!
Kirsten says
You're not alone.
Jamie says
Believe in yourself and don't give up! 🙂
~Christina says
With God all things are possible!!
mommieof4munchkins says
Love yourself for who you are, not for what others want you to be.
Jane Anne says
You are amazing. You are strong and full of love. You are loved.
Caroline says
When you come to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. – Franklin Roosevelt.
🙂
carlisle clan conversation... says
I always tell my little's that just like God loves us individually, he bestows each of us with our own gifts. No two exactly alike, because he wants us to teach others or gifts!
The Maid says
Everything always works out in the end, and if it doesn't, it's not the end! 🙂
Becky
Skooks says
When prayers go up, blessings come down.
Kristen Love says
Take one day at a time!
Let'sMakeADifference says
God doesn't make mistakes, now take courage in Him, and make a difference!
CJ {Pink Tea} says
No matter what, you are loved
Little Lizard King says
Smile!
Mari says
"When I am afraid, I will trust in You" Psalm 56:3
Thena says
You can do anything you put your mind to doing. Just keep at it until it's done.
Brooke says
take note of your enemies when you are young… they are the ones you will have the privilidge to minister to when you get older!
Julie says
There are no monsters under your bed. We do not allow monsters in this house.
Nate and Brenda says
We always tell our children to pray for those that are teasing them or hurting them. We tell them prayer is the answer in any situation no matter what they are facing.
Angela says
Having a good attitude will go a long way!
Thanks! abpmills@hotmail.com
melanie:::adorkable says
when I had bad dreams as a child my mom used to teach me to pray that I would think about "Whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent and praiseworthy."
Anonymous says
All things work together for good to them that love God…
melanie @ kingj@nva.choicebooks.org
Sarah says
God knit you together in your mom's womb, and even if you can't see what's going on in the big picture right now, he's got plans for you. Something that no one else but you can do, and he will give you the strength, courage, and knowledge to get there, all you have to do is ask and he will give.
Julie says
Find one small thing to celebrate and let your happiness build.
Laanykidsmom says
You can do this…this is no big deal (take a few deep breaths!)
Tonia says
No matter what happens, choose JOY!
shana says
"I'll be praying for you"
"Hang in there"
"I love you!"
Thanks,
Shana
Rebecca says
Believe in your dreams and do what you love.
BTW…after reading more about your journey, I sponsored a Kenyan boy…can't wait to get my info packet on him. Thanks for inspiring!
Anonymous says
Chin up!
"The Eternal God is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms" Deut. 33:27
emilyslinger at juno dot com
trooppetrie says
JEREMIAH 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future
I grew up in one of those scarry stories you hear about but the one thing my mom did, was ship me off several times a week on the church bus.
Find God, cling to God, know that he is there and helping you write a beautiful story
Tami@ourhouse says
God made everything, and he didn't make any monsters.
Also, think on things that are true, lovely, etc. Like God's faithful kindness to us, His covenant love for His people, and the gospel of Jesus.
Shelly @ Life on the Wild Side says
I know you . . . and I know you can do this.
The Real Me! says
God doesn't make mistakes!
I think kids sometimes have a tendency to think they don't belong or aren't good enough. But if they only saw themselves as the Lord sees them they might be able to break through the wall that stops them.
Hugs
Kim
Oh and I just have to tell you that I admire all that you did and cried many a times reading your posts.
Melissa R says
Tomorrow is another day.
Try again.
I love you.
Matthew says
Calm down and take the next step. We love you!
debby says
You can do anything you set your mind to!
Riddles says
Psalm 25:21 "My eyes are ever on the Lord, for only he will release my feet from the snare."
and
Psalm 27:13-14 "I am still confident of this: I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord."
Mary H. Toth says
you CAN do it! (based on Phil 4:13)
Sheila says
Believe that God loves you.
The Halbert Home says
If I ever tried to give up my grandma would tell me, "I can't never could" and it still encourages me today.
amanda says
Everyone fails – the strong keep trying.
Kristy K says
No matter what you do or where you go, I will ALWAYS love you.
The Summers says
my mom used to always tell me as I was walking out the door "Take Jesus with you" of course back then, most of the time I just blew her off..but the more I listened and realized what she meant, the more confidence I would have.
Anonymous says
God is always with you!
Dana says
Stay positive and positive things will come.
Leigh says
When we are weak, that is when God is strongest! HE will get you through!
Anonymous says
Don't ever stop believing in yourself because you have the most wonderful ideas that God has given you.
We try hard to encourage even the "not so good ideas" so they can learn successes and failures and learn to pick themselves up from that.
Kristina M
Kristin says
Every time you try, you succeed.
Alex Hall says
I'm constantly telling my kids, "Fear not, for God is with you!" and "Trust in the Lord with all of your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all of your ways acknowledge Him and he will make your paths straight." and "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything through prayer with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God."
Jennifer says
You are special are loved deeply, try your hardest and smile all the way through.
Duckygirl says
Pray to Jesus! :O)
Serena Morrow says
One time our family had a flat tire. After the tire was changed we went on. About a mile up the road we came across a multi-vehicle wreck. They were the cars that we had been driving along side for a while. Since then, when something doesn't go our way we say "Thank God for flat tires!" Because you never know what God was protecting you from.
Lynn says
"You are important because God doesn't make any junk!"
I remember this phrase from Elementary school.
Megan says
God loves you!
Britta says
You are never alone when you believe in the lord.
Kathy @ House of Hills says
Godis always with you even when I can't be.
Kristen says
If you are choosing the right, the Greater Power is behind you, backing you up.
Bethy says
YOU ARE A CHILD OF THE KING. He is ALWAYS with you, not sometimes ALL THE TIME.
Sara says
My "mantra" with my two children that are more easily discouraged is "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me"!
Also, I started reading at the beginning of your journey to Africa. Thank you so much for sharing that story. What an amazing, amazing journey.
melissa says
Philippians 4:13 "I can do all things through CHRIST who strengthens me."
erinstartsliving says
never, ever, ever give up!
julie mullen says
You are beautiful not because of what you look like or what you do, but because you are made in God's image.
hawkeyejlp says
I *know* you can do this!
Anonymous says
Pray and keep pressing on.
Celeste
cochrans8@yahoo.com
Tonya says
Do your best in everything! We love what Colossians 3:23 says, Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for me.
I love the look on your face Kristen when you're coming through the doors….pricesless!
Anonymous says
Mistakes are opportunities for learning.
Jane
jama@gondtc.com
Anonymous says
Learn from your mistakes, move on, life is waiting for you!
sackmom@yahoo.com
Anonymous says
God has a plan and a purpose for your life.
Stacy
snoopy47895[at]yahoo[dot]com
acox26 says
Don't let anyone ever tell you that you can't do it or achieve it. Alway try. If you don't try then you will never know if you CAN do it.
My Loss/Their Gain says
God never wastes a hurt. Ever.
julie_ruhlman (at) hotmail (dot) com
Lynn says
God is in control.
michellenotdawn says
PUSH
Pray Until Something Happens
The Activity Mom says
God gave you everything you need to do great things!
Emily says
Don't lose hope!
The Sullivan Sitcom says
I always tell my daughter, "You don't have to be the smartest girl or the prettiest girl, but you must try your hardest to be the nicest girl!"
That's how we show God's love!
Renee says
Believe in yourself the way God believes in you!
Katie Z says
Don't give up – you can do it!!
Stephanie Smith says
You can do all things through Christ who gives you strentgh! Just give it to God, and keep trying!