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The Poorest People In The World

April 14, 2018 by Kristen

“The bedbugs used to eat my babies but God is God and now they get to sleep,” Agnes

“I’m thankful that God has given me a new name. I was “that poor woman” but now I have a name,” Esther

“I was a sex worker but now I’m free and I have a good job making jewelry,” Faith

“I’m thankful for clean food. I used to only get food from the dump,” Papina

“I thank God that I can feed my children,” Miriam

“I’m thankful that I now have more than one dress to wear so I don’t have to wash and dry my only one every night,” Jane

“I’m grateful my child that was stolen while I lived on the street has been found,” Mama Gideon

As I listened to each woman share her gratitude in a slum in Kenya today, I realized sometimes we don’t even know everything we have until we hear what others say they are thankful they have received.

Because I’ve never once thanked God that my children didn’t sleep with bedbugs or that I have more than one dress or that I’m not a sex worker.

Perspective is everything.

I don’t know why God asked me to spend the rest of my life telling the stories of the poor. But sharing theirs has rewritten mine. I discovered that my lack of gratitude made me a pauper and their thanksgiving made them wealthy.

Because Gratitude helps us see what is there instead of what isn’t.

If you’d asked me a decade ago about these women, I would have said they were the poorest people in the world.

But I’ve realized the poorest people in the world aren’t people who have nothing. The poorest people in the world are those who aren’t grateful for what they have.

Something pretty amazing happens when we choose gratitude–we share what we’ve been given.

As I listened to women on the this side of the ocean say what they were thankful for today, I thought of how your generosity, your purchases, your gratitude has made every testimony of praise possible.

It’s true. God has used every dollar that has been given to Mercy House since 2010 to make the impossible, possible.

I’m an eyewitness and I’m standing on holy ground and I’m telling you–it is working. Because God is working.

When you become a part of someone else’s story because of gratitude, you remind women in poverty that God knows their name.

When you join Fair Trade Friday, you set sex workers free.

When you purchase the gratitude dish towel from India or the sweet pencil pouch made by our teen moms above, you provide dignified jobs.

When you become a monthly donor and support our maternity centers in Kenya, you change entire generations.

Gratitude turns what we have into enough.

When we have enough, we share our extra.

And it makes us the richest people in the world.

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10 Comments Filed Under: Faith

You Go Where You’re Sent, You Stay Where You’re Put, You Give What You’ve Got Until You’re Done

February 11, 2018 by Kristen

I had a meltdown on the subway. I guess it was bound to happen. In less than a week, I'd taken a quick trip to Kenya to show Ann Voskamp around and to bring back new fair trade pieces (rugs! throws!) from our artisans, spent a couple of sleepy days at home juggling all the things and then I was off to New York City to launch Mercy House's first wholesale collection at a Handmade Global Market. It started with my favorite boots. I grabbed a seat on the crowded subway and snuggled up to my ... Read More

9 Comments Filed Under: Faith

The Christmas I Got What I Asked For (And What It Taught Me About Entitlement)

December 6, 2017 by Kristen

I'll never forget the first time I told my husband not to get me anything for Christmas. It was the year he got me exactly what I'd asked for. Nothing. I watched my kids open their gifts, snapped pictures of their excited faces, made a big breakfast feast and I waited. I knew he was going to pull out a surprise gift. But he didn't. And I was disappointed. Inwardly, I felt like such an ungrateful brat. He was doing exactly what I told him, but the problem was I still had ... Read More

3 Comments Filed Under: Family

Our Life Is Someone Else’s Fairytale

November 29, 2017 by Kristen

I opened the front door and welcomed them into my home again. I watched their eyes widen at our Christmas tree heavy with ornaments, the holiday pillows on my sofa and personalized stockings hanging on the mantle,. My home is hardly a page out of a magazine. While they looked around in wonder, I saw the floor that needed to be swept, the sink full of dishes from a hurried dinner as we rushed to the airport, the air mattress my son would call his bed for the next two weeks because it's our ... Read More

6 Comments Filed Under: Family

The Truth About Parenting

October 29, 2017 by Kristen

In my first few years of adjusting to motherhood, I made a lot of mistakes (and I’m not referring to buying a “colic machine” that vibrated my crying baby’s crib. Scam. I got a refund.). I worried a lot and second-guessed myself. Why is she crying? Is she hungry? Why won’t she sleep? I struggled with trying to control this new little human. Some days I spent hours trying to get my baby to sleep and other days I would go to great lengths to wake my sleeping baby so I could feed her. I think ... Read More

5 Comments Filed Under: My Life

The Secret To Raising Grateful Kids

October 8, 2017 by Kristen

I've discovered the secret to raising grateful kids in an entitled world. Lean in and I'll tell you... It doesn't exist. Every home and every kid is different. That's one of the things that makes family life so amazing and challenging--we are unique! There are no two exactly alike. What works for one, might not work for the other. We are all doing the best we can. But I'm all ears when I hear what works for someone else because you never know! The beauty of community is we can learn ... Read More

5 Comments Filed Under: My Life

I’m Not Okay. And That’s Okay

July 30, 2017 by Kristen

I wrote this post more than a year ago about my friend who wasn't okay. This weekend I read my own words again as reminder that even though I'm not okay right now--it's okay. My heart is a mess. I'm tired. I'm trying to figure out how to rest and simultaneously continue... Maybe you need these words too...   I sat on the edge of her bed, and she didn’t even look up. I was visiting a friend who was not okay. It was more than a bad day, it was a sad season for her. But I wasn’t ... Read More

22 Comments Filed Under: Faith

Pain Is Beauty. Beauty Is Pain

March 13, 2017 by Kristen

Today, I walked into the salon on the property of the maternity home, funded through Mercy House Global, where the young moms get an in-depth course in hairdressing and beauty as part of the introductory vocational program. They wore matching pink shirts and professional blue aprons that said as much. And they brightened at the "customers" (read: my family) who would help them learn on real people. When they asked what service I wanted, I said a manicure. I left my nails unpolished since ... Read More

9 Comments Filed Under: Faith

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