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Parenting in the Year of Corona

August 2, 2020 by Kristen

I’ve been writing in this space for nearly 13 years now. I’ve written thousands of blog posts and hundreds of thousands of words… including many on why I think having dinner together as a family is critical.

COVID-19 has given us unlimited time to test this theory.

I won’t lie–our family dinners take on this pattern: Prepping. Cooking (usually with a helper). Eating. Discussing (politics, immigration, the virus, masks, the future, the hope and hopelessness we felt). Arguing about one of the above. Doing the dishes. More arguing.

There have been many dinners when I’ve said this out loud to all present:

I love you a whole lot but I’m getting real tired of you. 

I apologize that statement isn’t in any of my parenting books. It should be.

I’ve been given a crash course in parenting adult college kids who are forced to move back home mid-semester, seniors who don’t get to finish their high school career the way they planned and introverted junior highers who hate zoom calls and are struggling with loneliness and disappointment.

Your crash course might look different, but I think it’s safe to say that every parent is hanging on for dear life.

Summer has been an exhausting round of ground hog day and in a couple of weeks, and some form of less than normal school starts again.

We are making impossible decisions every single day–or decisions are being made for us –as we try to  juggle work and educating kids, signing death waivers, worrying about our kid’s mental health while trying to protect them physically.

Parenting in the year of corona is impossible.

I wish I had magic words to make it easier. I don’t. I’m writing a rare summer blog post to tell you a few things:

  1. Me too. It’s two of the most powerful words parents can say to each other. It’s such an honest way to say “you’re not alone. I am scared, angry, frustrated, sad. Me too.”
  2. I don’t know either. I cannot remember a more uncertain time as a mom. I simply don’t know what’s best, what to do next, when this will end, how to ease my kids losses. I don’t know either.
  3. Whatever decision you make, it’s okay. There’s no rule book or perfect choice for 2020. We do what we have to in difficult circumstances for the good of our family. That’s it. We do the best we can and it will be enough.

That’s all I have. I could remind you that God is still in control, but I figure you don’t need spiritual platitudes right now.

Maybe you’re like me and you just need another mom in the trenches making impossible parenting decisions who simply says heck, parenting in the year of corona is really hard. 

9 Comments Filed Under: My Life

The Ministry of Disappointment

July 13, 2020 by Kristen

Looking back on this challenging year, one word sums up 2020 for my family: disappointment. It was the year we canceled everything: school, church, camps, summer jobs, eating in restaurants, even weekly trips to Target. Today, we are still feeling the impact of this difficult season. As a parent, I have felt completely helpless in helping my children process their loss. I can’t stop the waves of discouragement. My kids are in various seasons of life, from college to junior high, but we have all ... Read More

4 Comments Filed Under: My Life

Ep. 29 | Permission to Grieve- Part 2

May 28, 2020 by Kristen

Friends, this is my last podcast episode for the "season." I'm taking a break this summer and I hope you'll tune in for more this episodes this fall. Here's an expert: Today, you might not be okay. You might be looking at a scary diagnosis, experiencing a financial disaster, or struggling with a wayward child. You might be facing a mountain of sadness or impossibility. You might be walking through a valley of despair. You might not even know why you aren’t okay. At these moments, we do ... Read More

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When Your Soul is Starving

May 25, 2020 by Kristen

Guest post by Janel Breitenstein I spoke to two women this week—women I would describe as hungry. Both were choosing tough situations: not situations where they needed to endure, but choices that twanged my heart like a violin string. Choices whose destination would be obvious if they weren’t within them. I found myself wordless. My friends seemed desperate for a safe embrace from me. For acceptance. But my head clanged with warning. Y’know those situations where you wonder if you’ll ... Read More

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A Prayer for a Summer in the Middle of a Pandemic

May 19, 2020 by Kristen

Dear God, Spring brought a storm we didn't expect and even though it filled our lives with torrential rain, we know you still reign. Summer is beginning. We are grateful the sun still shines and that the Son still breaks through our darkest days. And there have been some dark days. School will end without a big celebration, but it's okay because we are learning to recognize joy in the little things. Camps may be canceled, jobs may be uncertain, parents may be going a little ... Read More

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Homebody (Free Digital Bundle)

May 17, 2020 by Kristen

Jane Austin once said, “There is nothing like staying at home for real comfort.” I don’t know about you, but when I think of the phrase global pandemic, there’s no place I’d rather be than home with my family. For many, home—big or small—means comfort and safety. At Mercy House Global, we work really hard to bring pregnant teen girls to our homes in Kenya for those exact reasons.  But, after more than fifty consecutive days home, maybe you’re like the people at my house and you could use a ... Read More

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